With rents flying sky high in most urban areas, more and more people in their 20’s and 30’s and even 40’s are living with roommates. Living in close quarters can make it a bit harder to have loud and kinky sex, but it can be done if you just follow these tips.
Live with Fellow Kinksters – Try to get a place with some other kinky friends. That way when they hear the spanks and moans, it won’t be shocking or embarrassing. Plus, living with other BDSM practitioners will give you the opportunity to strengthen your community and maybe even exchange sexy skills.
Be Up Front – If you don’t have the opportunity to live with kinky people, be up front with potential roommates about your sexual practices. You don’t have to tell them everything but you should let them know that some sexual disturbance may occur. You’d be surprised at how maybe vanilla people are okay with that! Perhaps they are living vicariously through you.
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Schedule Fucking – Once you’re moved in, try to schedule your kink sessions for times when others might not be home, if possible. “One time we even planned a small play party when my vanilla roommates were out of town for the weekend,” laughs Jerry, a dominant and a content editor at FindaThreesome.com. “We had our fun, cleaned up well, and no one was the wiser.”
Hide Toys from Roommates’ Vanilla Friends – Don’t leave your crops and canes laying around where your non-kinky roommates and their friends can see them and wonder what they’re for! “My roommate’s mother was visiting and I accidentally left my Hitachi vibrator out in my room. She saw it and thought it was a karaoke microphone! I was so embarrassed when she tried to sing into it,” exclaims Terry, who works for Find a Femdom.
Try Soundproofing – A little soundproofing foam can go a long way towards muffling your sexcapades. Playing some moderately loud music is also considered a typical tactic in trying to cover up the sounds of your kinky lovemaking.
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