What is Bukkake?
From the proliferation of the facial in sexy videos, we know that ejaculating on someone is a familiar fantasy. For some of us, the more the merrier.
The bukkake fetish takes the money shot into a group scenario, where several men ejaculate on a willing woman (or man, depending on one’s persuasion.)
The word bukakke is Japanese and means to slosh or dash with water. Bukkake implies shooting at her face but can also drench any part of her body that she wishes.
Bukkake Fetish: A Woman’s Perspective
Here’s what you want to know from a woman with a bukkake kink, who has been there.
Do women like bukkake?
Doesn’t every woman fantasize about being covered in jizm? No. Like any other sexual preference, it’s personal.
Some women love the powerful sensation of arousing many men intensely all at once. We get off on being, well, showered, with attention. Some women enjoy it sometimes and some are not into it at all.
For me, bukkake play goes into the “it depends” category that I draw from when I’m feeling insatiable.
How can I arrange a bukkake party?
It’s probably easier to find men to participate than it is women. I’d start with finding your “bukkakee” on a fetish dating site.
When you’ve found her, work together to build a team. If she has hookup partners she relies on for group scenes, that’s a good place to start.
Read: How To Find Group Sex
Is bukkake safe sex for the woman?
Why thank you very much for asking! A super hot solution to potential concerns is to target the breasts, ass cheeks, and hair.
Some kink lovers stick to small communities of trusted and tested lovers and don’t move outside of them.
It’s also not a good idea for a woman to hook up with eight strangers. At least some of the participants should be people you or she already knows.
Are there bukkake fetish rules?
What’s the etiquette toward the woman and the other men in the group?
Ask the recipient what her desires are and follow through accordingly.
Don’t assume from videos that the girl wants to choke on buckets of cum, and don’t assume she doesn’t want to, either. A woman who gets off on bukkake fetish does not necessarily want to be gang banged, so it’s best to discuss the terms and expectations in detail ahead of time.
Read: Blowjob Cumshot: Where to Blow Your Load
In my experience, the best way for a bunch of men to be comfortable working their shafts in front of other guys is to have a sense of humour and not take things too seriously. Part of the joy of kink comes from transgressing our evolutionary heritage and giving up the territorial and one-upmanship that comes naturally.
How can I make more cum for bukkake?
Is there anything you can do to “load up”? Some guys swear by various diets, supplements and exercises. Then again, some experts say that’s all bogus.
The best way to prepare for a bukkake fetish scene is to avoid ejaculating for a few days.
Anticipate the event by edging, jerking yourself not quite off, and do it again and again. This will definitely produce more cum.
It might feel like torture but your orgasm will be unbelievable. It will be worth the wait!
For more on cum kinks, read: 7 Ways to Enjoy Your Cum Fetish
Do you have a bukkake fetish? How do you play with your bukkake kink?
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