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5 Ways to Ruin a Sex Role Play

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I’m going to assume that most of the readers at Kink Lovers have ventured into the world of sexual role plays; if you haven’t you’re really missing out. Role plays are a great way to expand on any kink, fetish, or sexual proclivity you may already be exploring… and most importantly, they’re fun. If you love to use your imagination or have a creative streak, then role playing with a lover might be just your thing.

So now that we’ve established how great role plays can be; there are some things that can upend the fun midstream. And there’s nothing worse than being in the throes of a hot and dirty scene when all of a sudden things goes kapput! Check out this advice for keeping it hot and steamy…

5 Things that Ruin Role Plays

1. Overplanning
There’s no need to spend days planning a role play; sure you may want to go out and buy costumes and props, but don’t discuss in detail how the scene will be played out. Spontaneity is part of the excitement; be open to the flow!

2. Not Discussing Limits Beforehand
And I’m not talking right before the role play, but before you’ve engaged in any kink with your lover. This is very important, especially with a new lover. Stopping in a scene to discuss what your safe word should be isn’t sexy.

3. Disrespecting Boundaries
If you do have established limits with your your sex partner, then respecting them is an absolute must! Disregarding a person’s boundaries will not only ruin a role play, but also the relationship itself!

4. Lack of Commitment
This isn’t commitment to the relationship with your lover, but to the role play. If you let embarrassment or fear of sexual experimentation creep in, things will go from hot to cold in a new york minute. If you have concerns, talk to your partner outside of the bedroom, not during the deed.

5. Interruptions
Who wants to be in the heat of the role play moment and have to stop all of a sudden. These distractions could be a variety of things: the phone rings, the computer beeps, the dog wants out, the kids come home, or you need a bathroom break. Most of these can be avoided with a little thought beforehand.

Check out these sexy role play ideas and depending how deep you get into the act, you may want to check out costumes and accessories for role plays at our kinky store.

Kinsters: Do you have any other role playing tips you want to share?

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