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3 Tips for a Successful Threesome

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Threesomes are one of the most common fantasies, especially for men. The truth is though, very few men actually live out this desire because they’re not sure how to make it happen. Let me share three tips that focus on before, during, and after threesomes. These will help you make your fantasy come true, make the most of the experience, and possibly make it happen again!

1. Before a Threesome
The hardest part of making a threesome happen is finding your play partners. Either you’re single and looking for a couple or you’re already in a relationship and looking for a third. Choosing a pair or third can be tricky. You can go the bar route, but now that online dating is so popular, it’s easy to find partners on adult sites that celebrate threesomes. Before you meet, it’s advised that you discuss your expectations and boundaries. This will get the business side of things out of the way, allowing the three of you to focus on the pleasure when you meet in person.

2. During a Threesome
There’s no need to rush a threesome experience because they’re rare and should be enjoyed to the fullest. It’s not a gangbang, so focus on foreplay as long as you can. Unless you’ve discussed ahead of time that one person is only interested in watching, it’s important that each person feels included. This may take a little strategizing, especially when it comes to positions, but that’s half the fun! As with any kinky activity, always respect boundaries and limits that may vary greatly between those involved.

3. After a Threesome
Once you’ve all had as much as you can take or desire to experience, be sure to enjoy the comedown. This might mean a group cuddle or simply having a drink together. When a threesome separates right after sex, it can affect the overall experience. Even though you might never see one or both of these partners, a conversational debrief can be a wonderful finishing touch. If you saw the threesome as awesome, you may want to keep in touch for ongoing trysts.

Read: Kinky Threesome Positions to Try

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