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3 Ways to Please a Dominant Woman

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Although I’m not a full-time submissive, it’s the role I’m most comfortable playing when I’m with a lover. My recent playmate asked to be spanked and tied up. I had to take a moment because I’d never been with a man who had expressed any submissive desires. I thought hmmm… I suppose I could try the dominant role. I’ve met plenty of people who love to switch, depending on their moods. To be honest, I didn’t think I would pull it off and was a little tentative at first, but it ended up being a lot of fun. Here are my tips for submissives who want to please a dominant woman.

Trust Her. I think this goes without saying in any kinky or bdsm relationship or role playing scenario, but I was very much impressed with my lover’s (it was only our second time together!) willingness to be tied up, ankles and wrists, and to let me have my way with him. I was turned on by that fact before anything even happened!

Obey Her. This is a continuation of your trust in her. When she asks you to roll over for a good spank, you want to listen to your dominant’s commands/wishes. Dominants reward their submissives and are responsible for their care. Before play begins, agree on a safe word that can be used if you are asked to do something you aren’t comfortable with. Having your s-word in place ahead of time will only cause a minor interruption if needed.

Thank Her. A good submissive is grateful for all the attention his dominant lavishes on him. Again, this ties into both trust and doing as you are told. You will aim to please your dominant woman and show gratitude when all is said and done. And the best thank you is when you return for more… whatever that more looks (and feels!) like.

My submissive lover has moved away… but it has left me with many memories and thoughts about playing the dominant role again.

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