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5 Tips for Successful Sexual Role Plays

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Sexual role plays are a great way to enhance you and your lover’s sex life. They can be very amateur in nature or extremely elaborate, but what makes a role play successful is the equal enjoyment of both partners. Check out these five tips to ensure a positive experience in your role playing adventures.

Planning and Communication
Don’t get me wrong, I love spontaneous sexual hijinks, but if you’re with a new partner or your sex life has largely been vanilla up to this point, you may want to discuss what a role play means to each of you. Are you a submissive or do you like to switch? What’s your line between pain and pleasure? Will you be comfortable telling your partner your boundaries? Many things will come up during a role play, but that can also break the mood if you need to stop and talk.

Staying in Character
Whatever role play I have been in, I find the longer my partner and I stay in our characters, the deeper our exploration goes. I found this difficult when I first tried role plays because at times it seemed absurd, and I would break out laughing. The nervousness goes away and when you let your imagination run wild, you’ll be surprised at your acting abilities.

Props and Costumes
Like any good play, the use of accessories can take things to another level. Some role play novices think they need to spend a lot of money on props and costumes, but most of what you need can be found around the house, from clothing in your wardrobe to spanking instruments like hair brushes and belts. If you want to splurge, check out the Kink Lovers store for all sorts of goodies.

Role Playing vs. Reality
If you’re just beginning to get kinky, role plays are a good place to start because they can be light and fun – a great mood to be in when exploring your sexual limits and boundaries. Unless you have a 24/7 dominant-submissive relationship that bleeds into your sex life, the personas you and your partner take on for role plays may be very different (even opposite) of your day-to-day nature. Both partners need to respect and understand that.

BDSM Bling
Many couples role play without ever going into the realm of BDSM, but role plays can go to another level with a little bdsm thrown into the mix. Some examples: “bad schoolgirls” deserve a spanking by their “strict teacher” or “the policewoman” may need to handcuff her “prisoner” for an interrogation. Of course, if you are adding these elements, you’ll want to discuss limits and boundaries in depth and come up with a safe word.

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Are you a role player? What tips can you offer?

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