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BBW Dating Tips for Men

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A BBW, of course, is a Big Beautiful Woman. We used to call these ladies Rubenesque, after the corpulent beauties in the paintings of Peter Paul Rubens. While a certain segment of the population will always lust after the slender, stick figure types, others will always be attracted to curves, ripples, rolls even, of undulating extra flesh.

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But what can you do to seduce and win the heart of one of these plus-sized belles? Let me give you a few suggestions.

Tips for Dating Big Beautiful Women

Join a niche dating site that celebrates big beauties. At BBWTonight.com you will find a cornucopia of large ladies to message and ask out on dates.

Let her know that you’re serious, and you are seriously into her just as she is. She doesn’t need to hide herself in black. She doesn’t need to reveal herself with the lights out or dimmed. She doesn’t need to get under the covers before you come in the room. Let her know that all her real estate is high value.

Celebrate every crevice and cranny of her. Tell her you adore how she moves, how she smells, how you love her weight on top of you, crushing you. Make her feel like her size is sexy, and the judgements of the banal world don’t matter when you two are together.

Get used to unusual sex positions. It isn’t always easy to get it on when you’re bigger. The missionary position may bend you into a strange shape over her enormous breasts. Having her straddle you may not work, so doggie style is a safe bet. Be creative. Learn to love oral sex, breast play, and mutual masturbation. Use your fingers and even arm, to get her places she needs to go.

Take instructions when she gives them. Let her help you find where that lovely vagina is hidden. You make have to move some rolls this way or that. You may end up coming into the wrong fold now and then, but so what?

Respect and accept her energy levels. Big ladies don’t have as much stamina. They may want or need to take breaks. Think of a sexual encounter as a journey, not a destination. Let things unfold naturally, and over time. This way you will have the most romantic fun possible.

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