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Be Dominant without Being a Dom

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Most men prefer to be the dominant in a sexual setting, while some take it a step further and want a woman who is seriously submissive. This partnership is the classic d/s relationship that many couples enjoy. But what if you aren’t into hardcore bdsm? 

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For many women, including myself, we still expect and want a man “to be the man” in the bedroom. And this doesn’t include humiliation or pain… necessarily. We want our lovers to take charge with confidence. Nothing is sexier than a man who takes a masterful approach to sex. If you’re still not sure what I’m going on about, let me share a few tips.

How to Be Dominant without Being a Dom

1. Initiate sex. While some women are forthright when it comes to their sexual needs, many still like to have a man make the first move. This makes her feel desirable and wanted. If you’re confident, the occasional sexual rejection won’t hurt.

2. Undress her. Don’t wait for her to do a striptease; either undress her slowly, one button at a time, or use a little force and yank her stockings down and continue from there. Again, this shows confidence in your intent and prowess.

3. Throw her on the bed. You may not have the physical size or strength to do this, but it’s the animalistic approach that matters. Women want to be ravished. It’s not high-school sex anymore, where being tentative is okay because you probably don’t know what you’re doing.

4. Take her in public. When you make the moves unexpectedly, it’s super hot. It can feel risky to her because of the unfamiliar setting and the possibility of getting caught. Let her wonder how long you’ve been planning this… or if it was a plan at all.

5. Role play. You can engage in kinky role plays with a bdsm-lite approach. And when you come out of it, don’t expect her submissive role to continue. Let her act the sub, but let her lead through dialogue and action—you’ll both feel on top of the situation.

How dominant do you like to be as a lover?

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