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Best Spanking Tools to Use in BDSM

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I don’t know why I waited so long to try spanking because now there’s no turning back. For me it’s not about punishment or humiliation or pain, it’s actually something I think of as fun. I guess I’m a vanilla kinkster at heart. And when it comes to what instruments or tools to use, it often depends on the play my lover and I are engaging in. Here are my favorite picks and recommendations…

The Hand. Of course, this is the obvious choice. It’s there, always at the ready, haha. And it gives the spanker complete control. It’s also more inclusive to the spanker, as he has the sensation of skin on skin and can feel the warmth of her buttocks, as well as the wetness between her legs!

The Belt. This was my first spanking tool, so it has a special place in my heart. It started as just a joke I made to my partner… that I needed a spanking because I did something wrong. He then said he would use his belt, which I immediately jumped up to get… the rest is history. A belt provides a great smacking sound (more bark than bite!)

Riding Crop. I got this for my lover’s birthday, but truth be told, it was really just a gift to myself. I like this instrument because it has it’s own sensation apart from the hand or belt. It’s more stingy than the others, and it leaves little pink triangles on your butt. You can find these and other spanking implements at our online Kink Lovers store.

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Spanking is something you will want to explore slowly with your lover. I think there are many women out there who would enjoy spanking but have never given it much thought, as this was my experience. You’ll find that spanking goes hand in hand with many other kinky activities such as bondage and role playing.

Is spanking part of your play? What is your favorite spanking tool?

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