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Blindfolds and Sensory Play

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I love sensory play! It’s a great way to enhance any hookup, and not only does it add layers to your lovemaking, it’s easy to do. One of my favorite things is when I accidentally find something that I can add to my sensory “toolbox.” This happened recently when I was using my eyelash curler. I thought they would be great for nipple pinching, and I was right!

I like to go a little further with my sensory play and add bondage and blindfolds. It’s really not hardcore bdsm, just a bit of kinky fun with consenting adults. I’m used to being tied up, but my new partner said I could tie him up and do what I like. Imagine my delight! I don’t meet many men who are so willing… so early in a relationship.

It was very spontaneous, so I had to act on my feet and use what was close by. For ties I used cables and bondage tape (a favorite that I need to get more of!) I used my sleep mask as a blindfold and told him I would return shortly. Here are a few of the things I used that may inspire your own blindfold and sensory play sessions.

Ice. Probably my fave item to use on someone else or to have used on myself. I either run cubes up and down their body, squeeze a cube in my hand and drip here and there, or the best: crunch a cube in my mouth and then suck on their cock. That’s a real pleaser!

Wooden Spoon. Nothing makes a sound quite like a cooking spoon against a bare bottom. Even if your lover isn’t a submissive, a good spank out of nowhere can be quite titillating. I prefer my tied partner on his back. In this case I just roll him gently to either side. I also use a smaller spoon to cup his balls and give light taps.

Feathers. I have a collection of these, various sizes and textures, that offer a nice balance between delicate strokes to more intense sensations. They also tickle which can be a pleasant surprise.

Tweezers and Tongs. I love pinching and clamping a man’s nipples. This isn’t something they are used to and will give them a unique feeling. Other areas that can be clamped are ears and balls. Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) is more popular than you think!

Vibrator. Small and cordless are the best because they make it easy to navigate around your lover’s tied up body. I like to use a clit vibrator with a lipstick point. It’s good for reaching into small crevices and can be used with one hand while your other is doing something else.

Tip: Partners should agree on a safe word before a session begins.

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