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DIY BDSM on a Budget

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I don’t know about you, but I walked out of the movies recently feeling a little inadequate. Not “inadequate” like I was off my BDSM game, but slightly chagrined over the fact that two actors likely had no idea how much your average kinkster would slay for just a little bit of time-share in their kinky playroom.

Let me be real for a moment: I’m not a billionaire. In fact, my vanilla day job keeps me at middle class. And though I’m grateful for everything my career affords me, I would be lying if I said the sight of a high-end sex dungeon decked out in a designer color palatte (containing everything from my BDSM wish list!) didn’t set my pulse racing.

Though the phrase “BDSM on a budget” might not invoke the sexiest of fantasies, looking for creative ways to get kinky around the house while you save up for that latex vacuum bed (and everything that goes along with it) can be fun in its own right.

Kink-up your home. No money or space for a cage? Use your closet. No fancy restraints or other rope items? Everyone has at least one belt or scarf, or shoelaces! Remember, the most important sex organ is your mind.

Try breath play. This was always something that freaked me out a little. Wrist restraints and a ball gag? I honestly just hold my breath. To me, it’s more comfortable, and I feel more confident. It also saves a lot of money!

Play with amateurs. Becoming a pro-dom or sub takes a lot of work and practice. As such, these professionals aren’t just hanging out on every corner. When you do find a good one, you’ll also discover that they don’t come cheap. Instead of hiring a pro to indulge your fantasies and fetishes, join a kink specific dating site like BDSMdate.com to meet enthusiastic amateurs with similar sexual proclivities.

What’s your favorite DIY BDSM? We’d love to hear your suggestions in the comments!

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