Curious about analingus? Do you fantasize about anal sex and rimming?
Analingus means sexually pleasuring your partner by using your mouth to lick and stimulate their anus. Any anal-oral contact such as rimming is considered analingus. And sometimes analingus is referred to by slang terms such as eating ass or “tossing salad”.
The anus is an area with a multitude of nerve endings that can push both you and your partner to orgasmic new heights. But if you are still in the fantasy stage where you have only dreamt about exploring a woman’s pleasure hole, you’ll want to prep yourself with a few analingus dos and don’ts.
Just remember, a lot of women don’t want a man anywhere near their poop chute, and you won’t change their mind no matter how much you beg. Consent is key so always respect your partner’s wishes when it comes to analingus.
But if you love the idea of tossing a woman’s salad (or want analingus yourself) there are plenty of ladies who do get off on anal exploration and who are more than happy to play your rusty trombone. You’ll find some of these kinky women on kinky dating sites.
Here’s a few analingus tips to adhere to when tossing her salad.
Analingus Dos
Do respect her boundaries.
She might just want a rim job but nothing going in. Either you talk about her limits beforehand or respond to her body language during the play.
Do express how much analingus turns you on.
This shouldn’t be a problem, as most men who like anal play, REALY like anal play. It’s important to share how pleasurable it is, so even a woman who isn’t that into it will still indulge you because turning you on pleases her.
Do explore beyond the anus.
If she’s new to anal play, she may feel a bit shy if your sole focus is her a-hole. Keep your hands moving at the same time, caressing her thighs, breasts, and buttocks. Suggest double penetration with a dildo, if you’re feeling really confident!
Read: Rimming Tips: How to Give a Rim Job
Analingus Don’ts
Don’t expect her to lick your ass, just because you rim her.
I get this mentality for oral but analingus is a whole other level of comfortability for some. If you need it to be a two-way street and your partner won’t reciprocate, find a lover who will.
Don’t expect her to have an enema.
If a woman’s into it, she will make sure she’s clean, but that extra nine yards shouldn’t be expected. This request will only make her feel self-conscious and less receptive.
Don’t comment on any residue.
If you’re going in with tongue, fingers, or toys, chances are there will be some secretions coming out. Discreetly wash what you need to, and then get back to pleasing her.
Read: Anal Play Dos and Don’ts
How does your woman like her salad tossed? Share your tips in the comments.
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