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How to Bring Swinging into Your Relationship

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If you want get kinky with your partner, you can approach swinging in small stages, and amp up the turn-on as you go.

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Swinging Tips for Beginners

1. Practice exhibitionism. Make out, grope, and touch your partner in front of others. Maybe you’ll meet people who like watching, and you just never know how far that will go. Finding someone who gets off on looking is the door that swings open to threesomes and polyamory. 

2. Be a voyeur.  The opposite of #1. You get to watch and be turned on by seeing other people go at it. It’s like watching porn, but live and in person. You can also work out this kink by going to strip clubs together, or watching live sex shows.

3. Watch porn together. This is the first element of trust—letting your special someone see the kind of kink you like to watch when they’re out of the house or sleeping. If you open up to them, you never know what kind of discoveries you might make. Having someone jerk you off to one of your favorite clips is super hot. 

4. See other people. Go on dates, flirt, and fuck other people. Then go home and report to your partner. This can be a huge turn on for many. Some people get into the cuckold idea of being humiliated by the infidelity. Other’s just find it a beautiful expression of physical love. Both are perfectly fine.

5. Engage in group play. An intimate party, a game of twister, truth or dare—these things can lead to you and your partner getting into some fun with other people. It goes naturally once you get used to it. Strip poker is my fave.

6. Try a threesome. This is a fun—usually one-off—way to charge up your relationship, and see how you’ll take to the swinging lifestyle. Check out ThreesomeTips.com for stories and advice.

7. Explore bisexuality. If you’re getting it on with other people (especially as a couple) then same-sex action is likely to happen. Guys, get used to drinking cum. Gals, get used to the flavor of pussy!

Get out there, and love freely!

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