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5 Ways to Improve Your Sex Role Plays

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Role plays are all about the imagination, so in essence, you don’t really need a whole lot of bells and whistles to create and act out a scene. Sometimes you don’t even need a partner. A lot of people like to engage in solo role plays when they masturbate, even voicing the role of an imaginary lover. But… sometimes adding a few extras or taking things a step farther can really elevate the intensity of your role play experience, so why not?

5 Ways to Improve Your Role Play Experience

1. Props and Costumes
It’s a role play, right? So think of being on the stage. It’s rare that you see an actor out of costume or without props, and hey, toys are always fun. It’s easier to pretend that you’re a policeman with a badge and a pair of handcuffs. A lace bra and garter underneath isn’t a bad idea either. You can find lots of goodies like these at our Kink Lovers store.

2. Take it On the Road
It’s one thing to act out your fantasies in the privacy of your home, but quite another to role play in public. I’m not saying you have to get it on in a mall concourse, but you can act out a scene with discretion. Maybe your lover is playing an investigator who is following you. When he catches you in the parking lot, he whispers, “Miss, you have to come with me,” before a little romp in his car.

3. Add Another Lover
This may already be something you enjoy, either threesomes or group sex. With more than two you can engage in a wider variety of role plays with more people participating. And if there are exhibitionists or voyeurs in your group, it’s a great time for those who like to be watched or those only interested in observing from the sidelines.

4. Get Kinkier
A lot of people start out with very simple role plays, without all the frills of props and costumes, or even any bdsm activity. But as you get to know your lover or feel more comfortable expressing your fantasies, you’ll find you might want to explore a kinkier side of yourself. This might include spanking, bondage, flogging, or edgeplay. Go wild and play safe!

5. Reverse Roles
It’s easy to get comfortable when it comes to role playing with a partner. Maybe you’re always the student who needs to learn a lesson from your teacher, or your lover always plays the employee who needs to be reprimanded for their missed deadlines. Whatever your usual routine may be, think about switching roles. Seeing things from a partner’s point of view can be very enlightening in any kind of relationship.

Check out: 5 Red Hot Role Plays

What provides the extra spark in your role plays? Please share in the comments.

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