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Introducing Ball Gags Into Your XXX Scene Play

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There are many things that look a lot easier than they are when you see people doing them on film. Using ball gags during sex play is one of those things. There’s a lot more to it than just strapping a ball into your mouth and getting down to business.

First, you need to make sure that the ball gag is reasonably comfortable, especially if you plan to keep it in place for an extended period of time, or during rigorous sex. Make sure the size is right, and that you can adjust the strap easily if gets too loose or tight during use.

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Try out different shapes to see which you like best. Some people prefer bit-style gags over ball gags, so try both to see which works better for you. Both styles often come with attachments that allow your lover to tug back on the gag, so check for these extensions when you’re making your selection.

Ball gags can be used by themselves or in combination with other equipment and techniques. If your lover isn’t into bondage, they might still get off on wearing the gag during sex, a lighter exploration of kinky sex that stops short of being bound. Having said that, the classic combination is bound and gagged for a reason. Restraining your limbs and your mouth are forms of sexual surrender, communicating a trust and intimacy with your partner that goes beyond mere sex.

Like anything different that you introduce into your sex life, if it’s entirely new to your partner, showing patience is advised. It’s also worth finding a mentor in a BDSM community like BDSMdate.com to learn more before trying any of this at home. A touch of anxiety is part of kinky sex, but you don’t want to add to that nervousness by moving too fast.

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Do you have experience with ball gags? We’d love to hear about it in the comments!

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