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Spontaneous Bondage Ideas

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Let’s face it. The type of bondage you see on Kink.com is way too elaborate for the average guy looking to add a little bondage play into his routine. A lot of the time sex is spontaneous and doesn’t occur in places we call home. And even if we are in our dens, we don’t always have the time for complex set-ups.

Sometimes we may be looking for bondage light, which allows for more in-the-moment playfulness.

It can sometimes be enough to have just her hands tied behind her back or her eyes blindfolded and nothing else. Simplicity can be amazing. Less can be more! And even if you glean your ideas from this article, you’ll look a lot more spontaneous, and trust me, for any relationship that’s a good thing!

Let’s look at everday scenarios where you can quickly incorporate bondage play to surprise your lover:

The Ties that Bind
You’ve just got in the door from work. Whip your tie off and either blindfold, gag, tie up or spank your lover. Your belt will work just as well for all of the above, so maybe you want to think about multi-tasking. I think so, right?

Need a Boost?
You and your lover have driven separately to a rendezvous point for adventurous car sex. Chances are one of you has jumper cables right? Hmmmm. Perfect for bondage and even a little nipple or ball clamping. Ya,ya I know. I said bondage light but how can you resist? While I’m at it, how about those bungee cords in your trunk? Pretty handy. Dig it!

Bathroom Bondage
You brush up accidentally against your lover in the bathroom and all of a sudden it’s on – right then and there. Time to think on your feet! Grab the hair dryer and it’s long curly cord (for the love of god make sure it’s unplugged) and tie up her ankles or hands. Voila!

Stocking Stuffer
Say you’re having sex outside, or again in a car, or at your office (you, so crazy!) or even just at home. If the lady involved is wearing stockings, tear those things off and you’ve got ample material to tie you or her up on the spot. Actually, even leggings would suffice.

Cookin’ in the Kitchen
You’ve just finished an amazing dinner with your partner. You’re wrapping leftovers with cling wrap when it hits you – you need to thank her for such a delicious dinner with some delicious play. Next thing you know, she’s bound with plastic wrap and your conveniently located fridge has provided a tray full of frosty ice cubes for sensory play. Oh, totes! And the knifes are close by for some careful knife-tip play. Excellent. Why yes, those chopsticks would make a perfect nipple clamp. Ahhhhh the kitchen – such bounty!

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Got any spontaneous bondage tips to share? What did we miss? Let us know below!

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