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Tips and Tricks for Chastity Sessions

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New to chastity scenes? Or maybe you consider yourself play-curious as opposed to having a bona fide kink or fetish. Either way, the joy of not-sex promises new heights of pleasure if you follow these easy tips and tricks.

Do Your Homework
Reading up on the rules is a good idea before embarking on any new game, whether it’s cards, sports, or kink play. You want to find out a little about the object of the game, the safety rules and regulations, what’s off-limits, and what the prizes are. The best information will come from other kink practitioners, professional doms and subs, and medical experts.

Seek Professional Help
Whether you explore the thrills of restraint a few times, or discover a lifetime’s passion, a professional can help you make the most of it. It’s true that you don’t always need an expert for kinky fun and games, but scenarios like these that are heavy on complex psychological theatre can go much deeper if we are led by someone who knows what they’re doing.

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Learn by Doing
Chastity scenes and sensations include a whole range of drama. It can be about reclaiming or relinquishing control, trust, intimacy, commitment, guilt, tension buildup, reward, submission or domination, restraint, constraint, nostalgia, limits, boundaries, boundary expansion, and more. So have at it, and see what comes to the surface!

Be GGG
Maybe you’re reading this because your partner has asked you to play along and not because you have any interest yourself. I’m a big believer that we should be good, giving and game with our partners, as long as their kink is not always required and we get the same favor in return. With a little imagination and loving indulgence, someone else’s thing might have an unexpected payoff for us, too.

Consider this: for a good friend, the idea of locking herself away had about as much appeal as banging her head against a wall. But her sexy new girlfriend wanted to try out some new thigh-high leather boots and a few domination fantasies. Who could argue? The whole thing was reportedly boring at first, but after a few sessions, Jennifer thought she might be able to train herself to climax without being touched. She started to be more present, concentrate, and then told her mistress she wanted her help in this training. Voilà! Today Jen doesn’t need any equipment, or anyone else. She can focus and orgasm like a tantric guru standing at the bus stop if she wants to!

Switch Sides
If one or both of you are a serious dom or sub, you may be happy where you are. But if you’re like me, you’ll find that exploring chastity games from both sides enriches each role. When you know exactly how aroused and desperate you feel after being locked in a chastity belt for three hours, you will be a brilliant driver when you’re in command.

Experiment with Chastity Belts
Find the toys that work best for you. There is a wide range from simple chastity belts for women, to multi-locked belts, to medieval-inspired torturous denial devices, to both simple and elaborate cages for men at every stage of erection imaginable. There’s even a sweet-as-pie, all-pink belt with heart-shaped locks! From Kali’s Teeth to Seven Stages of Hell to The Houdini, you’ll have an epic time.

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