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Tips for Watching Porn as a Couple

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Do you watch porn with your lovers? If you haven’t, it’s something worth trying. Most of the time, watching porn is a solo thing for me, just a way to turn me on for a little one-on-one. But I have had relationships with men who liked to watch together and it opened me up to the benefits it can have on one’s sex life. Here are a few tips on how you and your lady can enjoy watching pron together.

Choose Together
This should be fun, flipping through websites and categories to find something you can agree on. Take turns choosing, and if your partner doesn’t want to watch something, don’t push it, especially if you’re in a new relationship. You might be pleasantly surprised about what turns your lady on.

Be Open
You don’t want to force your lover to watch something that turns her off, but being open to her suggestions is a way to encourage her to watch a film she may be hesitant about at first, but may thoroughly enjoy once she tries.

Start Slow
Picking a hard-core BDSM flick first probably isn’t your best option. Just like good sex, starting slow and building momentum is how you should explore each other’s likes and dislikes. Try mutual masturbation to get things going.

Be Respectful
If something playing is making her uncomfortable, be willing to turn it off or fast forward. Learning about a partner’s sexual boundaries and limits is the first step to an awesome sex-life and connection.

Make Fun
You can’t take porn too seriously… it can be enlightening and offer ideas to spice up your bedroom bliss, but you can’t expect your woman to be or act like the women you see in these videos. Porn myths that lead to male expectations can be the downfall in many relationships.

Watch Her
During a video, watch your lady’s body language for cues to what turns her on. Is she touching herself, you? Or is she grimacing at a particular scene you may want to avoid.

Watching porn as a couple should only be a tool in your sexual toybox, not a necessity to get things going. It’s a great way to learn about your partner’s likes and dislikes, a way to open up dialogue about different sexual practices, and a source of ideas for new things to try.

Do you enjoy watching porn with your lover(s) or do you prefer it as a solo activity?

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