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Erotic Lactation and Adult Nursing Relationships

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There’s something incredibly sexy about a woman whose breasts are swollen with milk. I find it powerful and feminine. I have not had children yet, but many of my close girlfriends confided that when they were nursing, their partners were curious to try suckling. The girls’ reactions were mixed—some felt their milk was only for the baby. A few found it strangely beautiful to have the whole family participate in such an intimate, life-affirming experience.

Given that her breasts are being touched, sucked, and adored; it’s natural that many women experience sexual arousal while nursing. High levels of the hormones oxytocin and prolactin are released during breast play. Oxytocin is the cuddle-and-bonding hormone, present in any loving relationship, whether a couple, a family, a friendship, or even with pets. Prolactin spurs, prolongs, or maintains milk production.

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Milk Fetishism vs. Erotic Lactation
It’s quite common for men to want to try nursing or taste breast milk. For some, the desire is intensely sexual. Since it was fashionable until recently to define every imaginative fantasy as some kind of disorder, this desire is sometimes referred to by the medical terms lactophilia or milk fetishism.

But practitioners of adult breastfeeding prefer erotic lactation or adult nursing.

But where’s a guy to meet sexually available women who just happen to have breasts full of sweet milk?

This kink is more challenging to fulfill than most! There’s an erotic lactation niche in porn. There are also women who rent out their breasts when they are nursing. But this is usually illegal, considered as prostitution. When these archaic laws are in place, both parties are at risk. Besides, the nature of erotic nursing is slow, patient, and intimate. It’s not  the kind of kink fulfilled in a fast and furious hookup. So what’s a guy to do?

The Adult Nursing Relationship
The Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR) is, for many practitioners, the ideal way to indulge the lactation fetish. The slow pace and the comforting bond is often an integral part of the joy of lactation sex. Patience and trust from both parties make this kink work.

There are two main ways to enter the ANR. One can evolve quite naturally between you and your partner when you’ve just had a baby. Sometimes couples discuss this beforehand, but it can also arise from spontaneous experimenting while she happens to be breastfeeding.

The other way to enter an ANR is decision-based and requires an extraordinary commitment and interest on behalf of the woman. Induced lactation is part of the relationship.

Yes, it is possible for a woman who was not recently, or ever, pregnant to make milk, but it is quite an ordeal. The couple will want to read fetish and medical literature on the process. It takes months of breast pumping, massages, and suckling. This can be part of the thrill and the bond, working privately together to this unique goal. Patience and desire will usually yield milk. And women can take hormones to help nature along.

Once she begins to lactate, she can breastfeed you indefinitely as long as you suckle frequently!

Yes, it can be very challenging to fulfill the erotic lactation kink and to find the right partner. The adult nursing relationship requires frequent play and long-term upkeep in order to maintain. It’s not for everyone, even if breastfeeding is one of your deepest fantasies. But it is very special and rewarding for those lucky enough to possess the right mix of patience and desire.

Also read: Breast Play Ideas

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