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Orgasm Torture Tips for BDSM Couples

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I was in a really hot kink scene recently that I can’t get out of my mind. Have you ever tried orgasm torture?

If you’re into bondage and discipline, sensation play, submission, chastity training, torture kink, role playing, and more, orgasm torture can be an exquisite and intense part of your fetish and kink repertoire.

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What is orgasm torture, or post-orgasm torture? One partner—a bottom/submissive—is tortured with orgasms that he or she doesn’t control.

It may not sound like torture, but taking the art of orgasm up a notch—beyond the sub’s usual threshold for satiation—is the key to unlocking this pleasure chest.

The orgasm can be a form of torture because it is withheld, as well as being forced when the recipient feels as though they can’t come anymore.

There are many ways to play out an orgasm torture session, but one of the basic premises is that the bottom or sub doesn’t conduct her climaxes. It’s strictly hands off, so more often than not, her arms or hands are tied.

A strict rule is that she cannot touch herself to hasten the relief of coming, and nor can she remove your hand, cock, tongue, or the device that will force her orgasm. This rule is usually enforced more successfully by tying her hands so that she can’t act out of instinct.

My favorite sessions in orgasm torture start out with lengthy hot sessions of getting fucked by your cock and a wide array of dildos, oral action, finger play, and toys. You can leave me unfulfilled for hours by taking me to the brink and then pulling away.

Once I break down and my body relieves itself by climaxing so hard that I scream, the second part of the scene begins. This is where you drive me crazy by pushing me to the brink and past and then doing it again and again. When my pussy is inflamed and so sensitive it hurts, you keep going, using any number of methods to get me off even as I beg to be set free and cool down.

You can use remote-control vibrators, disengaging to watch TV or cook while I am helplessly bound. You occasionally turn the device on just as I think I’m free.

Another really hot scene is to bind her with ropes and make her immobile, securing a powerful vibrator against her clit and leaving it on. Her only control over the sensation is to buck her hips toward or away from the vibrator.

Orgasm torture can be a practice session for various kinds of training in orgasm delay, sensory deprivation, or learning to have multiple orgasms.

It’s really erotic to mix up the kinds of sessions you have—be really gentle on one day, torturing her pussy with feathers, light-touch fingertip strokes, and a soft tongue. Never yield to her insistent hunger or to the fact that she wants deep penetration. She’ll be getting herself off five times a day just thinking about this session for weeks afterwards.

Next time, take it to a different level, commanding total control over her body by infiltrating every orifice and pushing her to come again and again long after she is begging you to stop.

This kind of consensual submission play is incredibly bonding as she becomes totally dependent on you for her pleasure and release.

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