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Teasing, Orgasm Denial, and Chastity Play

Female Masturbation

If you and your partner are into power play, you might already know about teasing, orgasm denial and chastity. These are kinks that can further a submissive’s devotion to their dominant, and can give a Dom or Domme the thrill of control.

Teasing

To start experimenting with this type of play, some light teasing of the sub’s erogenous zones is in order. One idea might be to tie them to the bed in a spread eagle position, so they are completely helpless. Move your fingers sensually over their body, everywhere except where they may want it most. You can also use your mouth to tease or sensory objects like a silk scarves and feathers. Use these tools to build desire, eventually reaching their sensitive bits, but not bringing them to orgasm right away. Prolong their pleasure until you decide it’s time for them to release!

Orgasm Denial

If you and your partner have enjoyed teasing play, then you might want to move on to the next step which is orgasm denial. This usually involves some teasing, but instead of bringing your partner to orgasm at the end of a session, you don’t let them cum. You just leave them with a dripping pussy or painfully hard cock until next time. Some couples use different dice or playing card games to decide when a submissive gets to cum or how many times a dom must come x amount of times before the sub can. Orgasm denial can last for a few days or extend to a few months.

Chastity

Some people who are into edging orgasms may also use chastity devices, especially if they don’t trust that their sub will be able to resist their strong and growing desires. There are many cock cage models available for men, as well as complex designs with padlocks for women. For both men and women into chastity, maintaining proper hygiene is very important. Make sure you clean your sub’s sexual zones often. This can even be a sexy addition to a teasing session.

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  1. fiv

    November 13, 2014 at 7:03 am

    I want to submit to women and their feet so bad, and I’m sick of scam websites. I would be a foot slave and a piece of flesh to own and treat like a doormat.

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