One sex toy that has become wildly popular in the last few years is the strap-on. We receive a lot of Kinky Confessions that involve this kinky harness and dildo duo! And why not, it’s enjoyable for both men and women.
There is one thing that I’ve found to be a small problem, not with the accessory itself, but finding men who are willing to try it. Once most guys do oblige, the strap-on often becomes a regular feature in their fantasies and sexual relationships.
For the men out there who say no-way to the strap-on, here are the top reasons men who’ve tried it love it.
- You experience anal sex for the first time… and lose your mind. Just because something goes up your butt, it doesn’t mean that you’re gay or bi (I wish I didn’t always have to bring this up, but it’s always a part of the conversation.) If you’ve met women who love anal play, there’s a reason. It’s a snug sensation that hits an erogenous zone that provides a unique feeling and orgasm.
- You get to be dominated by being in a submissive position. If you fantasize about being with a dominatrix, this is definitely something to try. You may consider yourself a natural dom, but role reversal is not only fun, but also a way to understand a sub’s perspective. The beauty is that you don’t have to pay hundreds of dollars for a professional, just buy your girlfriend or lover a sexy strap-on with a small dildo (to start) attachment. Get on all fours, and go!
- You will get off on pleasing your partner. Remember way back, when your partner brought up the idea of wearing a strap-on, and you shut her down—think again! Her turn on can be yours. Sexual compromise is important to longevity and satisfaction in relationships. She may be more willing to fulfill your FFM threesome fantasy if you give in to hers.
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Have you ever tried a strap-on? Please share your thoughts in the comments!
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