Fetishes

Everyday Fetishes

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We all have intense attractions to a particular object or body part – something that increases our arousal or is necessary for our sexual satisfaction. Just about anything you can think of can be a fetish and probably is for someone out there. Most fetishes are harmless unless they begin to interfere and destroy relationships and your life.

While there are some truly strange things that get people off, there are fetishes that many of us share and that are easy to find and enjoy. An everyday fetish is one that we may run into by accident, something that can be a pleasant distraction that may require attention later on.

Voyeurism
For some, the only way to get turned on, or even to masturbate, is by watching porn or their partner engaging in a little exhibitionism. This is more common with men, but what works is that most women enjoy being watched. I’ll admit, I don’t need porn to get aroused, but I can’t watch porn without wanting to touch myself.

Piercings and Tattoos
These seem to turn most people on, especially those under forty. With the increased popularity of both in the last twenty years, it’s hard not to find someone without metal or ink in them. The process of piercing and tattooing can also be part of the fetish. On the flip side, there are men who have a thing for women that are “free” of any holes or marks on her body.

Hair
Most men have a hair type they’re into, whether it be long, dark, red, short, curly, or straight. A fetish for hair can also include touching, washing, styling, or pulling. For women, we all have a preference of men’s facial hair. Somewhere along the line, I found myself only wanting to sleep with guy’s with stubble – the clean cut look just doesn’t work for me. And let’s not forget about the hair down there. Even though it seems more and more women are going bare, there’s still plenty of men who like the bush.

Shoes and Feet
Women love to have shoes, but that’s an obsession. It’s the men with the fetish – high heels, open toes, and knee-high boots rank high in the titillation department. The ultimate turn on is often a woman wearing nothing but stillettos in bed. And let’s not forget about what’s in the shoes. Lots of men can’t wait for summer when they can browse anonymously at women’s feet. This is definitely a common fetish, I’ve dated plenty of men who want to suck, nibble, lick, massage, and admire my feet, and I have no problem with this.

Leather
Whether it’s a black leather jacket, chaps, boots, gloves, or cuff restraints, this fetish is huge. There are clubs and groups devoted entirely to leather, a material that seems always associated with sex. Any piece of clothing is available in leather as are many sex toys. Maybe it’s the bad boy/girl association, the way it feels against the skin, or the animal nature that makes this irresistible.

Care to share your fetish? Is it obscure or common?

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Tell us what you think! 8 Comments

  1. Diane

    September 21, 2012 at 11:25 am

    I am a submissive woman,and would luv to be tied and blindfolded by a BBW black couple,for them to sexually use me as there sex toy.

  2. Lola Page

    Lola

    September 21, 2012 at 6:03 pm

    Ahhh, bondage! That’s pretty a specific one Diane but I’m willing to bet you could find a couple interested in making your fantasy come true. 🙂

    Speaking of everyday fetishes, I once knew a guy who was really hot for a woman’s collarbone. In the summer when all the skimpy tank tops come out he’d go crazy!

  3. Stephen

    September 24, 2012 at 1:33 pm

    I am a newbie or want-a-be whatever they are called. I am a 57yo mwm who has never experienced BDSM or any thing other than plain vanilla sex. Any sites, groups or help in the Phila Pa region to help me decide if this is the way I want to go?

    • Lola Page

      Lola

      October 7, 2012 at 3:33 pm

      Hi Stephen,
      See if you can find a local munch where you can connect with those in the lifestyle and ask questions in a safe, relaxed atmosphere. Also, you might want to try joining a site like BDSM Date where you can search for people near you and spend some time exploring the chat rooms.

  4. Lance

    November 17, 2012 at 8:25 am

    Hi, my name is Lance. I am relatively new to this lifestyle of BDSM. My fetish is spanking. To be taken over a womans lap, and other things, are arousing and pleasureable. I am looking to connect with women that don’t have a problem with this. I am on different sites and as of yet, not good. I am into other things too but porn isn’t for me. If it helps my partner/ buddy, get in the mood and other things, then I don’t mind it. Any help or suggestions from you or other readers? What is chemistry?

    • Holly

      Holly

      November 20, 2012 at 7:47 am

      Hi Lance, Great to hear from someone else that is new to the game. Check out our recommended BDSM Dating Sites to help you find what you’re looking for. Chemistry is a special attraction you share with another person. Often you can’t explain it, you just know that you’re madly attracted to one another and can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off. It’s rare, but when it happens, you’ll know!

  5. 'Slave' Mark

    July 28, 2013 at 11:34 am

    I just want to know, “Why is it possible to ‘click’ onto people with NO photo, yet Not on the one’s where there Is a photo?”

  6. Windarrow

    January 6, 2015 at 8:16 pm

    Have looked on Internet sites to find some that display a female romanticaly yet slowly undressing a male. Haven’t found even one such site in a 5-year search? This fetish is something I wish could happen to me yet, the people I know are simply vanilla. Can anyone suggest such a site for viewing or subscribing?

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