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Strapon Fantasy From a Woman’s Perspective

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I’ve given strapon sex a go and maybe you have, too. Here’s a little about my experience…

I haven’t divulged many of my fetishes or fantasies here on the blog, (aside from my eyeball licking fetish), but tonight I’m feeling a little frisky. I’m alone at home, curled up on the couch, computer on lap, with a tall glass of white wine. And I haven’t had sex in 5 months, (yes it’s true, GASP!). What I’m trying to say is that I need some badly, but since that is not in the cards tonight you’re going to get the benefit of my bubbling desire through this post. Strap yourselves in!  (…cringe-worthy pun intended).

I think it’s safe to say that it’s a minority of men who have a strapon fetish, just as with most fetishes. The average guy does not fantasize about having a woman strap on a cock and have at him with wild abandon. That’s not to say this is a super rare fetish either. The stats on my post regarding strapon dating sites proves this. Regardless, we don’t often wonder about the women who are eager to put on a strap on for their own enjoyment, … or do we? There are plenty of discussions online prompted by a boyfriend or husband finding a strapon in his woman’s kinky toy collection. He is often appalled by the discovery and is feverishly asking others, “what does this mean!?!”. It means she wants to fuck you up the ass, you fool!

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My first experience with a strapon was in a well planned-out threesome situation in which we brought along much of our naughty toy collections. Katy brought her strapon. This was the first time I saw a strapon cock; I was excited by it right away. It was sparkly pink rubbery texture with a black harness. I knew right away that I wanted to strap that bad boy on!

I am heterosexual for the most part, but in this particular threesome it was Katy who really got me going. As I tightened that strapon around my hips and thighs, I knew it was going to be her pussy that I would be slipping my newly discovered cock into, and not the man. I was so turned on by this petite goth-looking woman that I just couldn’t help myself! It was sort of strange and awkward at the very start, but any hesitation melted away quickly. The funny thing is that I’m usually a submissive, but I felt more dominant than ever before as I fucked her in the missionary position, slowly gaining confidence in my thrusting motion. What a thrill! I kept on and on until I made her climax, rubbing myself under the harness at the same time.

So I’m still a strapon virgin when it comes to fucking a man with one. It does turn me on though. Just the thought of pushing into his tight behind makes me shudder, and I then I begin to wonder what it would be like to have an actual penis! We all wonder about the other side, don’t we? Thank goodness for strapons so that us women can give it a whirl! To be honest though, as much as this fantasy turns me on I would’t trade the magic of my pussy for anything.

Dare to share? What’s your experience with strapons? Is this one of your fantasies?

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Tell us what you think! 5 Comments

  1. William L. Burgess

    October 6, 2013 at 2:20 pm

    I have been in search of a woman that will reverse roles with me. It is something that i find very exciting. I have fantasies of such things that i hope to bring to a real relationship. Thank you Lola for your understanding of this subject. Lance

    • Lola Page

      Lola

      October 6, 2013 at 6:44 pm

      Thanks for your comment Lance. I think because the average woman is probably NOT into strapon sex, sites like BDSMdate.com really are the way to go because you can be upfront from the start about your desires. I can imagine that bringing this up on a first date otherwise could be very awkward, to say the least. 😉

      I wish you all the best in your search – Know that these women are definitely out there!

  2. luigi salmona

    December 16, 2014 at 10:47 am

    A hot way to test the waters is to get chatting on cam with a mistress. I use straponwebcams.com. They’ve got some of the most fierce and beautiful mistresses on cam!

  3. Doug

    December 10, 2015 at 8:41 pm

    I have a fascination with fur and strapons. My wife (now my ex) was understanding and adventurous enough to indulge me one night. We’ve played around with her wearing a strapon before and it excited us both to have me perform oral on her strapon but that was as far as it would go. One night she started to play with my asshole while riding on top of me. I had an image pop into my head of her doing me with the strapon that just excited the hell out of me. She must’ve noticed me get even harder and a change in my eyes because she stopped and asked what I just thought of. I asked her if she wanted to try fucking me. She thought it about it for a minute, still slowly moving back and forth on me while she did. She eventually said yeah lets try it. It’s a small strapon as I’ve never done it before and I wanted to be sure I could handle something inside me and enjoy it. Well she went into the closet, strapped it on and decided on her own to put on the fur jacket I bought her. I was throbbing and in pain from being aroused by simply looking at her. When she gently slid inside me I was a little uncomfortable but that lasted about five seconds. She moved slowly for me and began stroking me at the same time. I never expected it to feel so powerfully erotic. Watching her was as arousing as feeling her. I had one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had that night. I could tell she wasn’t too sure how she felt about how I enjoyed it but she said she enjoyed being in control and knowing that it was because I wanted to do this with her and only her that helped her to enjoy it. We talked about what she was uncomfortable with and I assured her that, though the physical tactile experience was more than I expected, it was more the surrender of control to her that made it so amazing. To this day I wish we could’ve tried again to make it even more enjoyable for her. It’s definitely something I hope my next partner will be open to. I’m a hetero male in my 40s experimented with another man when I was in my early twenties and solidified that men just don’t turn me on. Thank you for letting me share.

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