Q & A

Interview with the Dominatrix

Woman in Black Stockings

Cracking Eggs and Skulls

By day she’s baking up a storm for one of the city’s most coveted sweet shops; by night she’s donning tall leather boots and welting high rollers with her whip. Meet “Marie”: undercover dominatrix.

ME: Is there not a bit of a career chasm between baking cakes and whipping men for pleasure?

MARIE: It’s true, I don’t have a dominant personality, so for me it had to be learned as a role play. Years ago I met a dominatrix who showed me some of the ropes. I thought it might be interesting to do something different, now here I am with a closet full of leather boots!

ME: Who are your clients?

MARIE: Most are middle class, white, married men. Usually they’re in dominant positions at work or at home. They like to be disciplined and dominated, whether it’s simply being told what to do, a little spanking or more extreme forms of control… like being tied up at my mercy! I find a lot of men who think they want it to be hardcore until the time actually comes and they chicken out. Like the guy who wanted his balls stapled to his leg.

ME: Do you have any niche tricks that keep them coming back?

MARIE: My specialty has become the foot fetish. It’s the number one fetish worldwide. I’d rather focus on that than some of the other requests I get — like scat play. Besides, what girl doesn’t like foot massages, pedicures and shoes?! Some guys like bare feet, some like shoes or stockings. My most recent request was for rubber boots. A lot of men like it when feet are sweaty and smelly. My secret is pickle juice… I pour a little on my feet about a half hour before a session and they smell like I’ve been running a marathon.

ME: So… is it ultimately a “footjob?”

MARIE: No, most men want to smell, kiss, rub, or just admire your feet and legs. And for a lot of men it’s the look in high heels that turns them on.

ME: If you’re prepared to live this double life doing something that didn’t initially come naturally to you, it must pay well.

MARIE: My fee ranges from $150-$250/hour, depending on the fantasy scenario. I offer BDSM, role play, cross-dressing (one of my personal faves) and duos with a gay-male for a forced-bisexual fantasy (of course it costs more for that).

ME: How do you maintain personal relationships?

MARIE: Dating is hard. Relationships shouldn’t be formed on deception so I’m faced with telling a potential partner about my job. Guys are always very curious and some may think it’s cool, but eventually it becomes more and more troublesome. They get jealous, they bolt. It rarely works out.

ME: So is there an exit strategy from being dominatrix?

ME: Well, I do love my baking job. Maybe there’s even some school in my future. But in the meantime it’s an adventure. And the key to happiness for anyone is finding something you love doing. And if I can pay the bills by giving some prude old man a well-deserved spanking, then why not!

Dominatrix: Day in the Life

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