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In your search for the ultimate bdsm dating experience, you’ve probably come across BDSMSexDates. This site is among the top offerings in this niche due to its large membership numbers and long list of features, but it also has it’s drawbacksl. Let me break down the pros and cons of this site and help you decide if it’s worth checking out.

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Take a Test Drive First

BDSMSexDates used to allow guests to do a full search of its members without entering any personal info. You can still do what they call a “Quick Search”, but it only gives you five profiles of local people before asking you to create a free profile. So I definitely advise you to go ahead and create an account so that you can take a good look inside and see who’s available near you.

Want to know what you can get for free at this site? Features that you can access without upgrading include creating and editing your profile, adding videos, hot member stories, niche chat rooms, chat roulette, forums, and some silly games and quizzes. You’ll be able to see who added you to their favorites, view all the profiles, and leave “quickposts” (a commenting system). But like most dating sites of any value, you’ll have to upgrade in order to send private messages.

Fully Featured for More Fun

Once you upgrade to a full membership, the fun really begins. You’ll get access to everything including blogs, steamy member videos, and full messaging privileges. BDSMSexDates has a lot of extras including private chat rooms with audio and video, private galleries, and even access to live sex shows in its adult entertainment section.

Their pricing is standard at 29.99 a month, but you can save a lot of money by going with a larger package such as a full year for 99.95 – less than 10 bucks a month. Not bad!

What’s Not to Love?

I’m not gonna lie – this site is ugly inside. They recently did a redesign of their outer pages, but when you log in you’ll find that they haven’t updated their site design at all. It’s neatly organized and the navigation is okay, but it’s not what I would expect for a paid site. Some areas are a little dusty – for instance, there haven’t been any new articles added to the dating tips section since 2010.

I think the biggest problem with this site is that they haven’t done a good enough job of separating the bdsm lovers from the general community. Lots of niches are represented because of the other dating sites in their network, and you can weed the kinky people out with an advanced search, but much of the site still features a broader group of people than you may be used to on a more specialized bdsm site like BDSMdate.

The Verdict

Because it costs nothing to create a basic profile, my advice is to go ahead. Play around with the features and chat rooms, and browse through the local profiles. If you find someone you want to message or make a connection with elsewhere on the site, then it’s probably worth upgrading to see things through. If you find the site is not quite the bdsm adventure you were looking for, then look through some of the other sites listed on our bdsm dating sites page, or check out my review of BdsmSingles.

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