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Best BDSM Dating Sites for 2014

Happy New Year 2014

Not all BDSM sites are created equal. Before you sign up for some kinky fun, check out my top recommendations for finding the real thing.

I just went back to online dating after a period of self-imposed singledom and yes, celibacy! Although I was single, I didn’t have even one profile going to keep a lure in the waters, so to speak. But winter is coming, and a girl can get cold through those long winter nights. I knew it was time to log back on and find some warm beasts to get my engine running again.

Since I was starting from scratch in looking for some kinky playmates, I figured it was a perfect time to write this post on the best BDSM sites for the coming year. I’ve done the leg work and put myself out there on several bdsm dating sites and separated the wheat from the chafe. If it’s your resolution to get more kinky sex this year, then come along as I lay out the best 4 sites to meet your match.

Alt.com – The GrandDaddy of BDSM Dating, and Looking Better Than Ever

The biggest and brightest in dating for anyone looking to indulge their fetish or s&m desire with someone new. Alt.com has been around longer than them all, and boasts a membership of nearly two million. Not just limited to the US either, Alt.com is available worldwide and in multiple languages. The limitations are few as members can post full nudity and sexual videos. Not many dating sites offer video to their members beyond paid models, so this is what really sets Alt apart, in addition to all those members. When I’m on the scene, I keep an active profile here at all times.

BDSMSingles.com – Tested By Time

What it lacks in features (compared to Alt), it makes up for in simplicity and a good number of members. The profiles at BDSM Singles are based mostly on multiple choice questions. This may sound dull but it actually encourages people to fill out their profiles more fully because it’s so damn easy to use a drop down menu. This means you get a lot of specific info about your matches, even it’s not quite as original as you’d hoped. But not worries, strike up a conversation over instant messenger and get to know each other better, or simply send one of 30 free “Flirts” which are given to all new members. No pizzazz but a good size community of people looking to meet up for real encounters.

GayBDSMDate.com – Gay BDSM Dating Headquarters

For any of you who are gay and looking to meet same-sex partners for bdsm dating, Gay BDSM Date is the place. Much like Alt.com, this powerhouse of a site has all the bells and whistles. Member videos, chat rooms, instant chat, blogs, and more. There are members of all genders and sexual orientations at GayBDSMDate, but the gay men are featured front and centre. A free profile won’t let you message other members, but you can still view live member feeds and use the chat. What you really need to know about this site is that you’ll have more success finding gay bdsm playmates here than anywhere else.

 

What’s your pick for best BDSM dating site? Let us know in the comments!

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  1. Ron Rosen

    July 30, 2014 at 10:33 pm

    Most of the BDSM Dating sites are owned by the very same company, Various,inc. Speech, contrary to popular opinion isn’t free. If you’re told to leave because of something you say, write or post, no reason or reasons will ever be given. I’ve found customer service on the various sites usually try their best to help you out. I think if you live by the golden rule and respect others opinions you’ll do just fine. Remember all people don’t enjoy everything so where one may love humiliation; others may not. & different from popular opinion you can’t tell who that person is by looking at them. Only getting to really know them will give you those answers. So good luck, and everyone relax and have a good time. Ron

  2. Jax

    April 19, 2015 at 1:21 am

    I fail to understand why I should take any list of “best BDSM dating sites” seriously that has ALT.com on it.

    • Lola Page

      Lola Page

      April 24, 2015 at 4:16 pm

      What are your issues with Alt Jax? Just curious. I’ve been a member there for years… it’s not as cozy as some communities but I stick around mostly because there are more members there for me to meet than on other sites.

  3. whitebottomboy

    June 14, 2015 at 11:00 pm

    Alt.com does not even use Dominant/Submissive/Switch in its “cupid” matching system, so submissives are matched to other submissives and dominants with dominants. So in other words, it is completely worthless and speaks volumes of what BS it is from start to finish.

    Alt.com, Instead of being the granddaddy of them all, is a scam and a complete waste of money and time and always has been. It uses systematic fraud, continuing to bill people after they have closed their accounts.

    It also owns and operates other websites under different names that use the exact same data base of users – including keeping the profiles of those who closed their accounts as bait for new suckers.

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