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Best Bondage Dating Sites for BDSM Lovers

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Whether you’re an expert with ropes and knots, a submissive who loves to be bound, or a curious onlooker whose only watched bondage but wants to try – these sites are for you.

Finding sex partners out in the world is hard enough, let alone meeting someone you not only connect with but who shares your desire to explore bondage in the bedroom. Bondage dating sites offer a great way to meet local doms and subs looking for someone just like you. So if you’re ready to meet up with someone who will either tie you up or let you put them in a bind, give any of theses sites a chance. You can thank me later in the comments. If you have any sites you have tried and recommend, please add those as well!

BDSMdate.com : The Bigger the Better
This one is a no-brainer. BDSMdate has the largest number of profiles of people interested in BDSM, and bondage in particular, than any other site. This is probably the only bondage site that offers member videos and video introductions, in a no-holds-barred atmosphere that welcomes nudity and all fetishes.

More common features like bondage chat rooms are free for basic members, so even if you don’t want to spend money to meet someone in real life, you can still join the community and use the chat room, see some member videos, and participate in the blogs and groups . If you’ve heard good things about the site Alt.com, then know that BDSM Date uses the same back end and database so you’ll find the same profiles on both and only need to join one.

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Bondage.com : The Name Says It All
Unfortunately this site hasn’t taken off quite like BDSMdate but it still has a larger database than most. I go on about database size all the time because that’s really what’s going to make the difference between finding people to actually meet up for bondage fun and the sad reality of most sites with only a dozen real profiles in your town. (If you ARE worried about scams, check out my scam avoidance tips!)

Bondage.com needs a bit of a design upgrade, but as for features it’s not too bad. They offer bondage forums, hot member stories and erotica, and more advanced features like video chat. Definitely worth trying out for bondage lovers, because as the name implies, bondage is the draw for most people who sign up here.

BDSMSingles.com : Simple Yet Effective
BDSM Singles has been around nearly as long as the sites above and so also offers members a good chance of meeting someone local for bondage sessions and kinky dates. It’s much more basic than the two sites above in terms of features, but for some people that’s okay. Not everyone is interested in blogging, forums, or chatting over video. Some of us just want to focus on making an initial connection through messaging and quickly meeting up to see if there’s compatibility.

So for those of you who don’t need all the fancy entertainment (although video chat can really help you get to know someone before meeting), BDSMSingles is going to work just fine for you. As with the bondage sites above, a free profile will at the very least allow you to do a search which will show you how many people are local to you and then you can decide about the upgrade from there.

For more reviews on these and other niche dating sites, check out all of my reviews here.

Have you had success finding bondage hookups and dates using online dating? What worked for you? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below..

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