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Best S&M Dating Sites for 2013

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There are now more sites for S&M dating online than ever before. Meeting kinky people in the bdsm community is now easier and more pain-free (unless that’s your thing), and the choices available are ever expanding. Let me help you wade through the many S&M dating sites to help you find your perfect fit!

As we all know that S&M stands for sadism and masochism, I’m going to focus on sites that are best for finding like-minded partners. Many of these sites are also ideal for fetishists; and at the end of this post, I’ll add more links to fetish dating sites for those with specific interests. These S&M sites are getting more and more niche, making it easier for members to find what, and who, they’re looking for.

Top 3 S&M Dating Sites

BDSMDate.com
A lot of sites claim that they are the largest for S&M dating; but BDSM Date really does have the most members. They use the same technology as Alt and BDSM (see below), and have been building their member base and awesome features for over a decade. Want to video chat with that dominatrix before hooking up? Want to share your webcam across the site? Want to meet thousands of locals ready for kinky fun? This is the place. Create a free profile and enjoy all the free benefits before upgrading, which include: S&M chat rooms for everyone, member webcams, instant messenger, as well as groups and blogs. And when you meet someone you want to know better, you can upgrade and get started with live and in-person fun.

BDSMSingles.com
This is another popular site in the bdsm dating universe. A few of their stand-out features include profiles that encourage members to share more detailed information, the invisible mode option, and the ability to search through all the profiles with free membership. Full memberships are priced competitively, with a monthly fee costing less than a night out trying to pick up kinky folks at the bar. Want more details? Read my BDSMSingles review.

BDSMDateLink.com
Not the most fully-featured site, but it does get credit for offering a decent amount of access to free members. This allows you to get a better idea of who is on the site and a chance to communicate before you “pay to play”. For instance, BDSM Date Link has forums that are open to everyone, and searching and viewing profiles is possible as soon as you sign up. If you want to know more, read my review of Kink Dating. KinkDating.com is a partner site of BDSM Date Link and shares all the same features and functionality.

Honorable Mentions for S&M Dating

Bondage.com
Bondage is another site that goes way back and enjoys the popularity that only a long-existing site can manage. As you can tell by the name, bondage is the primary interest here but members do have varied tastes. A big thumbs-up for the competitive pricing which gives you a full-month membership for only $19.99. Some cool extras at this site include erotic stories, blogs, and your very own @bondage.com email address.

Alt.com
Alt is amongst the best for membership numbers, amazing features, and for their true communities of S&M enthusiasts. I left them out of my top three because they’re built upon the same backend as BDSMDate.com, and I wanted to list three unique sites in my top 3. Either of these are also a great choice for finding bdsm partners near you.

 Foot Fetish Dating Sites and More

To give you a sampling of how specific dating sites are becoming, here a few more links that cater directly to tastes within the S&M community. Note: you can find fetishists on the sites above, but if you’d like to join a site that feels like it was made just for you, take a look at the following options:

FootFetishDating.com – Meet men and women who adore feet.
SpankingDating.net – Join this site if you want to give or receive a spanking.
StraponDating.com – Meet others who like to have fun with strap-ons.
PantyhoseDating.com – Browse this site for other pantyhose fetishists.

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