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“Some girls, they like candy, and others, they like to grind,
I’ll settle for the back of your hand somewhere on my behind.
Treat me like I’m a bad girl, even when I’m being good to you,
I don’t want you to thank me, you can just spank me.” ~Madonna

Spanking can be a lot of fun, especially if both you and your partner are equally into it. If spanking is something that really turns you on and you’d like to meet someone local to play with, a spanking dating site can be just the thing. You can avoid having to broach the subject with people who are too vanilla, and get right to the profiles of spanking lovers who are single, ready to play, and close by.

These are the sites I recommend for anyone looking for local spanking partners…

Spanking Dating: http://spankingdating.net

SpankingDating.net is THE spanking dating site. When looking to find spanking partners online, we usually have to head to a broader BDSM dating site like Alt.com or BDSMSingles.com. This site wins because it was created just for men and women who like to give and recieve spankings! No more weeding through profiles to find someone who shares your fetish, now you can become part of a a great community of like-minded people.

As far as features go, they have everything you need to connect with other members and set up dates. Once you’ve created a profile, you can do a few things completely free such as search through all the profiles of other members, use the chat rooms and send Flirts. (A “Flirt” is basically like winking at someone to let them know you’re interested, without actually sending a message.) When you’re ready to meet, you can easily upgrade to send private messages to get the ball rolling.

Create Your Free Profile at SpankingDating.net Here

BDSM Date: http://bdsmdate.com

I know, I know. This site manages to make most of my “best of” lists and here it is again. Although it’s not technically JUST a spanking site, it does cater to all kind of kinks and fetishes, including the spanking crowd. And to make things easier, BDSM Date gives you the ability to search by interests so finding people who want to be spanked is easy.

What this site really has going for it though is the sheer number of members which dwarfs the membership of any other BDSM dating site. Definitely take a look at who’s local here before making your final choice of a spanking dating site. It’s free! BDSMdate.com is pretty wild, so be prepared for lots of nudity, dirty member videos, and no-holds-barred chat rooms.

Meet Spanking Singles at BDSMdate.com Now

Find Spanking Partners: http://findspankingpartners.com

You’ve probably come across this one in your search for spanking dates because they do a lot of advertising and have been around awhile. Note however, that this site is almost identical inside to SpankingDating.net and has all the same features and members. This means there’s no need to join both, just check out one or the other. You can find our official review of Find Spanking Partners here.

Want more spanking posts from Kink Lovers? Check out Spanking 101: Do’s and Don’ts and Spanking Positions and Variations.

Do you have any spanking experiences you’d like to share? Tell us in the comments… because this post could use a little more naughty!

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  1. keith

    December 13, 2014 at 8:15 am

    I had a girlfriend who met me at the door when I arrived to pick her up for a night out. She answered the door in just a pair of panties, and a belt doubled over in one hand. She ordered me to strip and wrapped the belt around my neck, then lead me to a chair in which I was bent over and spanked hard and long. Then I was told to clean her dampness up with my mouth, and then she had me put a strapon on her that really alarmed me when on my knees. This continued all night.

  2. Ken

    August 31, 2015 at 11:19 am

    All those spanking sites mentioned are just bs. You pay too much for the site not to work. I would not even use the sites for free. They are horrible and I would like to know how much you are getting to mention those sites.

    • Lola Page

      Lola Page

      September 8, 2015 at 1:45 am

      Hi Ken. Which of these sites have you been a member of? Would love some more specific feedback about your experience. I’ve been on BDSMdate for years but I guess being a woman it’s different for me..

      • emgee

        September 27, 2015 at 9:25 pm

        I can’t speak to Ken’s experience, but after finding your article (and damn… but it’s cool seeing people out there who share my interests trying to help others in the scene! Thank you for writing it!!) I signed up for spankdating.net, and was petty disappointed.

        My initial search showed a number of hits, but the vast majority didn’t have any non-checkbox information available; to my eye they looked like primitive scambots or tourists. The handful of hits that had more than checkboxes filled in, were usually pretty primitively worded — ie, they looked like they were filled in by slightly more sophisticated scambots.

        The initial emails I’ve received were either squicky folks of the wrong gender (updated my message preferences after that) or from people who were *hundreds* of miles out of my search range (very likely scambots, iow).

        Over time, I’ve gradually relaxed the search constraints, and I now see maybe 5-10% hits which look like actual human beings… albeit pretty far from where I live. FWIW, I live in a major liberal metropolitan area.

        Perhaps my experience is different than yours because I’m male and am just starting out on the site, but it looks like a great place if I want to give my credit card number and address to people more interested in stealing from me than participating in kinky activities with me.

        • Lola Page

          Lola Page

          November 17, 2015 at 1:12 pm

          Hi emgee, Sorry to hear about your negative experience. Do you live in a large city or a smaller area?

          Admittedly, because spankingdating.net represents a rather focused niche, it doesn’t compete with the membership numbers at sites like BDSMdate.com. You might try that site to find fellow spanking lovers because the free membership will at least let you get an idea of how many real members are near you without any $ investment. Let us know how it goes.

          • emgee

            December 1, 2015 at 8:43 pm

            Okay — I’ll check that out and see what it yields! Thank you for following up!

            I live near a large city, one which is within my search range.

  3. Strapper

    November 10, 2015 at 5:52 pm

    I dont know how long ago this was written, but spankingdating is NOT free anymore. You cannot make a profile or anything unless you pay first.

  4. jeremy

    December 19, 2015 at 7:49 pm

    Why don’t you ever tell people about the number one free site for people into kinks. It’s called collarspace.com and its 100 percent free. No credit cards are mentioned, and it actually works to meet people.

  5. SPankworx

    February 27, 2016 at 5:05 pm

    Spankingdating appears to be a scam site, After searching and identifying 100 women close to me. I sent them all messages telling them I was curious if they were real I asked them to answer my message so I could determine if the profiles were real or fake. So Far, I have no reponses, no view, no evidence that any of th women are anything more than fake profiles created by the site owners. If Lola Page recommends this site, I would guess she is behind it. Shame Shame Shame.

    • Lola Page

      Lola Page

      March 1, 2016 at 1:47 pm

      It might be possible that those women haven’t upgraded their accounts and are unable to reply. Seems unlikely that that would be the case with all 100 though. What area are you in? I’d be interested in investigating this as well.

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