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I have a lover who I met on FetLife.comIf you’re into BDSM, kink, bondage, swingers, or sex clubs this is a MUST-KNOW website for all things one might desire regarding the more advanced levels of sexuality. In case you didn’t already know… you’re welcome! 

Anyways, I have a lover I met on FetLife, and she likes it kinda rough. This magnificent woman is into some poly play, some kink play and some power dynamics play. We’ve shared, with her husband and another divine lover of mine, what might have been the absolute best foursome I have ever experienced in life, and we’ve had a lot of other intense and aggressively passionate sexual encounters over the time we’ve known each other. But, for their recent wedding nuptials, I ended up doing a favor for them involving a drag queen and a local celebrity, and my lover said “You made our wedding absolutely unforgettable! I want to repay you with a full-body massage and a happy ending!” which is something I haven’t actually experienced yet in life, funny considering all the other extracuricular sexual adventures I’ve enjoyed. So, of course I say “yes please!” and then went to meet her at her place one lovely afternoon…

About five minutes into the massage, I was mumbling something about how good it was feeling, and how secure her hands were on my shoulders, and the joy of firm connection… and then I mentioned bondage and rope tying. She said something along the lines of “I love being tied up!” To which I replied “I’d love to tie you sometime!” And, glory to the gods of sex, she replied with “Why not now?!” And… I had to take the opportunity to make this untouched fantasy become truth.

There are a variety of harnesses, bindings, braces and bondage options to take when performing this fun feat of exciting sexual exploration. And one of the first lessons I learned in rope bondage, is to keep two fingers width of space between the edge of the rope and the flesh. Once its pulled tight, the fun can be had fully, but once the person pulls away or moves around, it’s a safe boundary to play in if they have some “breathing room” for their skin, as it is being captured.

The age-old fantasy of using businessman neckties and wrapping her wrists around the bedposts wasn’t exactly what we did, since her bed did not have posts. That always is an option for those who do have a bed with top/bottom headboards and/or posts, and fastening your partner’s hands and/or feet in a semi-unescapable position is all it really takes to get the BDSM-lite dream to become real in the bedroom! But thankfully, my lover was no stranger to this type of intense action… and she had a portable bondage bed harness already!

Essentially just one big “X” of what is similar to rope-climbing gear, and about ten to fifteen feet long in each direction, the Under the Bed Restraint System had four loops around each end of the ropes, and a Velcro fastener to capture your playful prey inside. They weren’t very fear-inducing, not metal or lock-based, thus if she wanted to escape the clutches of the fasteners, she could, without my assistance. (NOT that there ever was or ever will be a moment where I’m not 100% attentive to her blood circulation, comfort, desire for freedom/bondage and overall physical state when she is roped up!) But they still did the job! I tied each one of her arms and feet in the loops, and left a tiny bit of space for her to slightly maneuver… but for the most part, my lover was tied up, spread eagle, on the bed, and totally under my control. It was a glimpse of dark erotic bliss!

She was happily restrained, and gave me the sign that she wanted me to commence ravishing her. Thus, I did, in as many ways as I could imagine. Oh yeah, we did have a safe word for her to say in case she wanted to stop the scene and attend to herself for any reason.

But, when partners are connected in a session, I hope it will be pretty evident to anyone, whether an amateur or a professional, if the person who is tied up is enjoying themselves. Everything is a sign. Check for the way they move their body in reaction to your actions. Listen to their breathing. Is it hot and bothered happily, or is it hard and tramautized angrily? Feel their motions. Are they in sync with yours? And especially: LOOK at their eyes. The look in their eyes should tell you almost everything you need to know. If you are seeing joy and pleasure and openness (between blinks and moments of being lost in erotic ecstacy, of course), then you are invited to continue. But if you see terror, fear, pain, doubt, insecurity, fury, confusion, nausea, stress or sadness in their eyes and face, then stop. Disengage from the sexuality and check on their health status. It’s easy to tell, if one isn’t lost too far in the land of domination and desire.

But, my lover was NO stranger to this level of play, so it was all systems go for us! I deeply enjoyed witnessing her voluptuous body open up as a flower does in spring, and have her allow my mouth, fingers, and every other aroused part of my essence, to delight and discover her pussy and breasts and lips, and not have her be able to resist or avoid any of the passion and kisses I desired to devour her naked body with. The straps were firm and securely holding her in place, thus, she allowed me to fuck her deeply in a dozen types of ways, without her needing to do anything except lie back and enjoy the dream!

I had to adjust her hips occasionally to accommodate the way her legs were being extended by the harness, so I could penetrate her as completely as possible, but I did it, and SHE LOVED it.

After about forty minutes, we had enough sweaty passionate wild bondage fucking, and I gently kissed her all over her over-stimulated body, before slowly unlocking each Velcro strap from her taut limbs.  And just like that, I had joined the tie-me-up club. Membership has its unforgettable privileges, please believe it!

In extreme love,
Addi Stewart aka Malcolm Lovejoy

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  1. Stevenriley

    February 25, 2016 at 1:13 am

    Hi, I’m steven and looking for a woman or women to tie me up very tight with rope.

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