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Handcuffs – A Classic BDSM Restraint

Man in Handcuffs with Woman

When getting started in BDSM experimentation and other forms of kinky sex play, a lot of people assume that you have to obtain expensive, fancy equipment and accessories to get the most of out of bondage. The amount of enjoyment you get out of our exploration has more to do with your imagination and the way you interact with your partner than it does with the gear you use.

To enjoy bondage, you don’t need to invest in over-the-top restraint systems, and you don’t have to become an expert in tying rope knots. If those things appeal to you, then go for it, but if you’d like to experiment with bondage – before taking the plunge on that level – start with something simple, like a good old pair of handcuffs.

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There are many types of handcuffs for sex play, from pairs that are like those used by law enforcement to cuffs that are padded and fur-lined to provide greater comfort. When the person being restrained is new to bondage – you or your partner – it’s probably best to use gentler and more comfortable cuffs at first. If you crave more intensity, you can move on to more complex restraints.

One of the great things about handcuffs is that they are portable and flexible in terms of their application. It’s easy to use cuffs to secure limbs to bed posts, table legs, chairs, and anything else that is narrow enough to clasp one cuff around. Many kinky women like the idea of being able to carry cuffs in their purse while on a date… just in case!

So, if you’re looking to experiment by restraining your partner (or having them restrain you) in an erotic game of Cops And Robbers, be sure to learn more by talking to kinky scene players on a site like BDSMdate.com. And remember, you don’t need to run out and invest in something fancy, just pick up a pair of sturdy handcuffs and put your imagination to work!

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