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3 Reasons to Explore BDSM Slowly

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Once you discover the delicious delicacies of BDSM, you may want to gorge yourself with all it has to offer, but hold on… there a a few reasons why you need to take it slow.

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Think of kink and BDSM as the most decadent of buffets. With so much on offer, there’s no reason to pile your plate and overindulge… believe me, it could lead to much worse than a stomachache.

3 Reasons to Slow Your Kink Roll

1. You might find you can’t go back. This especially applies when it comes to new relationships. Just like when you sleep with someone on the first date, it’s hard to go back to holding hands. If you whip out all your party tricks—handcuffs, butt plugs, cock rings, and lord knows what—on your first date, your new lover may expect or want this all the time, even though you still enjoy it vanilla sometimes. Mystery is alluring, so keep a little for the next time… and the next time…

2. You might scare a kink newbie. Maybe you’ve been part of the BDSM community, living the lifestyle like the freewheeling kinkster you know that you are, but that doesn’t mean you won’t hook up with less experienced players or even want to start relationships with them. It would be a shame if you scare a vanilla hottie away with your leather strap-on the first night.

3. You might land yourself in an uncomfortable situation. If you do find yourself less experienced than a lover, don’t be afraid to go at your own pace and voice your concerns or any questions you may have concerning a BDSM practice or fetish that you are exploring. Trust and safety are serious  issues when it comes to kink for a reason.

When it comes to kinky exploration, it’s best to sample a little at a time and to really take in what you are experiencing before you go back for seconds or thirds.

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