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Details to Include in Your Kinky Dating Profile

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Details matter when you are creating an online dating profile, but even more so when you are on a bdsm or kink-focused dating site. One reason to focus on the details is because the lifestyle is so vast and varied, you want to describe yourself and your interests as best as possible. This way you will attract your best possible matches, and it won’t take as long. People with sparse profiles often need to engage in lengthy back and forth messages with other members before meeting, just to find out if they are suitable. You don’t need to write a novel, but more information is better than a lack of.

Here are some areas to address in your profile that will help you cut to the chase… and have you hooking up with new partners faster.

Dominant or Submissive
A lot of prospective partners will want to know this right away. And it’s okay if you don’t identify as either, just put that out there. Or maybe you enjoy role reversal with a lover. Don’t be afraid to get specific in your identification (e.g., “I enjoy being submissive, but don’t categorize myself as such. It’s more my nature than a role I take on.”)

Proclivities (Sexual and Non-Sexual)
Niche dating sites, like BDSMDate are designed to help you find someone to satisfy your particular fantasies, kink, and fetishes. People that use these sites are not going to be shocked by your eye-ball licking fetish or your curiosity about fisting. Put it out there and see what happens.

Type of Relationship
Again, just lay it on the line. Maybe you’re married and want a once-a-week hookup with a dom woman. Or you want something nonsexual, like a woman whose feet you can massage and lick for an hour when the fancy strikes you. Or you want a serious sub-dom relationship that you can explore deep desires, as well as limits and boundaries.

Kink History
Letting other members know a little bit about your relationship to bdsm and kink helps to paint a picture of you. Are you a vanilla wanting to meet an experienced kinkster to lead the way? Or a dominatrix who wants to meet other femdoms to swap stories and learn from? It’s helpful to others to know your level of experience and where you are at on the journey of exploration.

Passions
Your whole profile need not be kink-centric and shouldn’t be. Most (although not all) members will be interested in you as a whole and be interested to know what else motivates, drives, and satisfies you. Sometimes these passions can be integrated into some great role playing scenarios.

What tips do you have for creating a dating profile?

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