Tips for Negotiating Risks in BDSM Relationships
BDSM and sadomasochism are by their nature about risk, pain, danger, and power—and their intersection with pleasure. Here are common-sense guidelines to
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Ballbusting Ideas for BDSM Testicle Torture
Looking to add some new ballbusting methods to your tool kit? I once went out with a guy who asked me straight
13 Ways to Dominate Your Submissive
Whether you’re in a full-time d/s relationship or just dabbling in BDSM with your kinky lover, there are many ways in which
Daddy Issues and Role Playing in BDSM Relationships
Daddy issues can be kind of hot. At the same time, there are all kinds of boundaries that can get crossed. Once
How to Tickle Torture Your Partner
Want to try out sexual tickle torture and looking for some ideas? The other night my partner and I were messing around
How BDSM Makes Sex Better
Some of us are born kinky, while others experiment with BDSM at certain times in their lives or with specific partners. Whether
Water Bondage and Water Breath Play
Water bondage adds a new element to BDSM breath play and drowning kinks. I know that back in the middle ages, dunking
How to Keep Your BDSM Lifestyle Confidential
While there are some Kink Lovers who like to let their freak flag fly, the majority prefer to keep their BDSM lifestyle
Looking for a Goth-Emo Sissy D/S Relationship
When I see a new kinky confession in my inbox, I always get excited to see what one of our Kink Lovers’
Orgasm Torture Tips for BDSM Couples
Have you ever tried orgasm torture? If you’re into bondage and discipline, sensation play, submission, chastity training, torture kink, role playing, and
BDSM Travel Bag: How to Pack for Air Travel
Planning a kinky vacation that involves air travel? Be careful how you pack your BDSM gear. Going through airport security is stressful
Poll: How Dominant Are You in Bed?
When it comes to sex talk with my girlfriends, the number one complaint is often, “I wish my lover was more dominant