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3 Sexy Role Plays for Date Night Out

Couple Flirting at Laundromat

While I have quite a few kinks, my absolute favorite is role playing. I love playing a character and dressing up. It’s like having a sexy Halloween whenever me and my lover want to act out.

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Role plays can be spontaneous with no props, costumes, and accessories, or they can be well planned-out scenes using all kinds of extras, as well as unique locations. Role playing is something everyone on the BDSM spectrum can enjoy, from kink newbies to 24-7 d/s couples.

After trying some classics: boss-employee, teacher-schoolgirl, and doctor-patient role plays at home, I got the urge to take our act on the road. My lover and I go places and pretend not to know each other. This makes the sex so much hotter when we get home.

3 Role Plays for Your Next Date Night

1. Can I Buy You a Drink?

Arrange to meet at a restaurant where she will sit at a table waiting for her “date” to arrive. You show up later and sit at the bar. After some time, it is obvious that her date is standing her up, so you ask the bartender to send a drink. After she takes a sip, you wander over and ask if you can join her. Wouldn’t you know—you have chemistry! You can continue the charade, or hightail it home.

2. Does This Look Good on Me?

Pretend to meet at the mall while shopping for clothes. My lover and I “bumped” into each other at the lingerie shop. He said he was looking for a gift for his wife. I tried on a silk teddy and then a lacy bustier with garters. He told me he was in an open relationship and shopping for a third, all the while telling me how sexy I looked. Half the fun of this role play is watching the reactions of the sales people.

3. Are These Your Panties?

This role play takes a little extra effort, but we made it happen. I brought a load of laundry to a laundromat across town. My lover showed up a half hour later with his own load (containing my sexiest bra and pair of panties). When he goes to use the washing machine after me, he holds up my lingerie to ask if its mine. I say yes, and we start a steamy flirtation while others ogle.

For us it’s all about acting like strangers who’ve just met and putting on a show for others, who we hope will find it entertaining and titillating. The challenge is always to stay in character until we get home, even then, sometimes we’ve kept the charade up until we both orgasm.

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