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Feederism: Feeding and Gaining Fetish Explained

Unhealthy Food Falling into Mouth

While looking for some sexy bondage porn, you may have stumbled onto a video featuring a larger-than-life model strapped down to a La-Z-Boy being force fed pizza like a duck destined for foie gras. What gives?

Maybe, like many men, you love fleshy vixens with undulating rolls and an ass that wobbles when you pound it. But you’re not sure what you’re looking at now.

You have encountered feeder porn!

What Is Feederism?

Feederism is a subset of the very common fat fetish, where the act of feeding a person is sexually arousing. It is also a subset of BDSM, extreme dominance and submission, albeit played out in an unusual way.

While most of us find the idea of spooning a strawberry into our lover’s mouth somewhat scintillating, feeder fetishists are turned on by lots of food—and the weight gain that ensues.

What’s the difference between BBW worship and the feeder fetish?

Most men who are into fat chicks aren’t into feederism. BBW lovers usually have a specific kind of “big” they see as beautiful, and that’s where their desire lies. Some love mega large ladies, and some like women who are pleasantly plump. They don’t necessarily want their love object to gain more weight, and aren’t turned on by feeding her pies.

Even so, feederism is definitely linked to fat love, because guys who are into it report that the weight gain is part of the thrill, and they rate larger ladies as hotter. Very few feeders are interested in skinny feedees or eaters who don’t gain weight.

Feederism is also unusual in that it’s a lifestyle or slow-burn fetish, not a one-off hookup. In order to see the result of the feeding, it takes time. You don’t serve up waffles and watch her grow then and there. The eroticism of the feeding and gaining fetish plays out over time.

Gaining Fetish: Who are the women who want to be fed?

Feederism is something of a one-way street. Larger women who love to eat, or who are willing to accommodate a man’s kink might consent to being fed. But not a lot of folks are really turned on by the idea of getting stuffed and gaining weight. A few do have a gaining fetish, and have documented their erotic journey to obesity on Instagram or porn sites, but feedees who are truly driven sexually by the eating or gaining itself are rare. They are more likely to desire the ultimate submission than the food for its own sake.

Even more complicated, some studies show that gay men are the most likely to be turned on by feederism, and straight women the least likely. This might make a lusty match awkward to say the least! Feeder love is rare in general—only a tiny percentage of folks report this kink—and of those who have feeder fantasies report their fantasies are rare or incidental, not really something they are that into.

Those who are into this kink are committed. A feeder may have to pay quite a bit for groceries. And if his feedee becomes disabled by her weight gain, he may take care of her in several ways. A feedee’s life revolves around the fetish because she is always eating, and often becomes too big to live or work normally.

Because of the nature of this kink fully played out, it is considered a form of extreme BDSM. The interdependency isn’t just in the bedroom, but occupies most of a feederism couple’s life. The feedee becomes entirely dependent on her feeder.

Do you fantasize about feeding, or practice this kink? Share your perspective in the comments!

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