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True Story: Guitar Cable Hookup

When I met my ex-husband, I was a band groupie. In fact, my husband played bass in a hard rock band. Musicians have always been a turn on for me. I saw them as rebels that would really rock my world. My husband did anything but. His idea of foreplay was high school finger fucking. We were young, but I knew there had to be more, but it didn’t come and neither did I. He liked his routine. I had always heard people joke about slam bam thank you mam, but I was living it. It turned me off for the last couple years of our marriage, and he kept trying for a while but eventually gave up. My libido had almost disappeared.

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Before I separated from my husband, my girlfriend invited me out to see a cover band at our local bar. I hadn’t seen a band in years and forgot how fun it could be. We drank shots, danced, and I even got up the nerve to send a drink to the cute guitar player. He came over to have a chat between sets and asked what I was doing after the show. Was hooking up that easy? My girlfriend always talked about online dating and how it was like choosing from a buffet, that she liked it because it gave her more control in choosing who she wanted to be with.

After the show, Jimmy the guitar guy invited me backstage for drinks. My friend went home with the drummer and I ended up in the band van. How 80s! He undressed me slowly, nothing my husband had ever done, and asked if he could tie me up with his guitar cables. I have to admit, I was a bit anxious but I was so turned on by his confidence and experience I went for it. Wow! I was restrained but I couldn’t have felt more free. I had an affair and I didn’t care. I knew this was the beginning of the end of my marriage, and also the beginning of experimentation.

Since then I joined the site bdsmdate.com. I’ve had a few chats, but nothing too wild, yet! What kind of kink do you love?

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