Kinky Confessions

4 Reasons to Date a Dominant Woman

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This week we have two kinky confessions from readers who have yet to experience the joy of sex with a dominant woman.

A strong dominant woman forcing herself on me without consequence is something I want to try. – W.

I want to be seduced by a beautiful woman and have strap-on sex with her. I want to be the center of her attention, and I want her to pleasure me and make me feel special. – B.

Perhaps their words resonate with you, or you’re simply curious about the appeal of being owned in the sack. I wish them both the best of luck in finding what they seek, and present to you why dominant woman are so appealing.

4 Reasons to Date a Dominant Woman

1. It’s Hot to Relinquish Control

Are you someone who’s routinely in charge, or tasked with keeping it together at all times? If so, giving up control could be a deeply pleasurable experience. If, like one of our readers, you fantasize about having a dominant woman force herself on you, explore that!

Seek out a femdom who would be more than happy to role play that scenario with you. Choose someone who understands your particular needs, then have a conversation about limits. Create an online dating profile that outlines your desires, then search the site for a woman who you feel would suit your needs.

Not sure where to meet dominant women online? Try some of the tips in our article: Where to Find a Dominatrix.

2. Being the Receiver Has its Perks

Our reader’s confession about wanting strap-on sex got me a little hot. I think that’s because I know just how incredible it feels to be fucked by someone who is focused on my needs and knows just how to make me feel special. Talking to my guy friends, it’s clear that some men have never really experienced this kind of attention.

Foreplay and sex are often focused on the woman’s pleasure, and while that’s not necessarily a bad thing, it can leave some guys wanting more. Go get yours! Find a woman who knows how to wield her strap-on like a pro, then get on all fours and enjoy.

3. Women are Powerful—Embrace It

Never mind what you might have learned about gender roles and sexual expectations—let yourself be put in your place, and love every second of it. I’ve mentioned it in other posts, but it bears repeating: there’s something super sexy about turning power dynamics on their head and saying fuck you to the patriarchy. It’s a need that lots of guys share, particularly those who long to be cuckolded.

Join the growing number of men who are not ashamed to admit their desire of being taken by a dominant woman. There’s greater acceptance for that kind of thing now with more and more men engaging in female-led relationships (FLR lifestyle) so stand up and be proud!

4. You Deserve It

Whether you’re a bad boy in need of punishment, or a good guy who’s earned the right feel spoiled and cared for, you deserve the attention of a dominant woman. Why deny yourself? I’m sure there’s a woman out there who wants nothing more than to dominate you in the exact way you need.

The key to finding her is to know what you want, then to not be shy about asking for it. Do some research into the specific kind of role plays and relationship you’re craving. Learn the language and the etiquette so that when you do find your ideal partner, you can hit the ground running.

What attracts you to dominant women? Please share in the comments!

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