Fisting: What You Need to Know
There are lots of good reasons most women, even kinky ones, don’t let you fist them. The risk of pain and damage
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Feminist Porn for Everyone
There has always been a confusing connection between feminism and porn. In some spheres, particularly taking it back to the deep second
Talking Dirty and Sharing Fantasies
Are there people who are sexually attracted to rainbows? I live on the West Coast, and I can believe that there are.
Dos and Don’ts of Fingering
My kinky confession this week: I don’t like fingering. You might say in response: “What?!? But it’s a staple as old as
4 Basic Skills for Kinky Men to Master
For the beginner, the world of kink and the needs of women in that world can feel intimidating. For the kinky experienced
Shower Play Ideas for Sexy Lovers
The shower or bathtub is a place where most people feel relaxed and free, the rush of water having a meditative quality.
4 Kinds of Kissing For Kinky Couples
One of the greatest aspects of having a lover is the kissing connection. It’s one way we get so excited about a
Am I Too Kinky for My Boots?
Dear Jamie, I’m a twenty-something guy, African-American, reasonably attractive. I’ve been using online dating sites for hookups, kinky partners, and more. I
Surprise Striptease for My Lover
I recently became friends with a new neighbor who works at a strip club. At first I had a lot of preconceived
Introducing Your Lover to Anal Sex
Banging your lady in the ass is one of those topics that can be difficult to broach if you haven’t already. She
Poll: How Loud Is Your Sex?
I’ve been giving the topic of loud sex a lot of thought lately. I live in a ten-unit lowrise, and two friends
4 Dirty Ideas for Shower Sex
It’s amazing how many sexy ways there are to play in the most neglected room of the house. You do it most