Posts By Jamie
-
11FetishesFashion Fetishism: Latex, Rubber, and PVC
It’s no surprise that people find particular clothing sexy. As utilitarian as clothes are, providing cover or warmth for our bodies, all...
-
103Just the Tips
Ethical Kink: 7 Values for Responsible Dating
I was talking with my friend and sometimes lover about ethical kink, and the joys and pitfalls of kinky dating. Since both...
-
282Fetishes
11 Age Play Fetishes and Kinks
One realm of the imagination is our age or the age of our lovers. This sets the stage for age play and...
-
270Facts & Info
5 Reasons She Doesn’t Want Sexual Penetration
Dear Jamie, I started dating a woman named Nicole who I met on a kink dating site. We hit it off in...
-
419Facts & Info
Why Do Women Love BDSM?
Women are kinky, and we’re into BDSM. (Bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism.) But why do women like BDSM, and how...
-
382Just the Tips
Too Kinky? Dating Someone Kinkier Than You
It’s normal to worry about your kinks and fetishes and wonder if you’ll meet a match made in heaven and not freak...
-
391Fetishes
Hand Fetish and Arousal: Cheirophilia
Foot fetishism is quite possibly the most common kink. But hand partialism (sexual interest with an exclusive focus on a specific part...
-
514Facts & Info
Why BDSM Submission is So Satisfying
If you prefer dominating, if you’ve never been sexually submissive, or found it uncomfortable or boring, you may wonder what other fetish...
-
533Facts & Info
5 Reasons Kink Works for Older Lovers
Most of us assume our generation invented kink, or that things like polyamory are a new phenomenon. While it may be true...
-
4081Just the Tips
Bored with Kink: How to Cope
Is there such a thing as kink fatigue? Jeff, 30, never thought he’d lose his lust for fetish adventures. But in the...
-
970Fetishes
5 Kinks and Fetishes Women Hate
We all know it—for many fetishes, you guys are on your own. The good news is that women are VERY kinky, generally...
-
461Facts & Info
Implied Consent or Expressed Consent?
We all understand safe sex, and how consent is key. But it doesn’t hurt to review, reaffirm, and check in every once...
