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What Does Kink Cost?

For some people, kink is a minor indulgence in their life that takes up little investment of time or money. Others describe

BDSM School for Submissives

I’m curious – how do subs become subs? Do you think you always had a submissive personality previous to any sexual preference?

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Anal Sex for Beginners

Most of you kinksters probably have anal down pat, but for newbies it may still be uncharted waters. People seem to love

Handcuffs and Key

BDSM Scene Negotiations

Meeting someone online for BDSM activities can be daunting and requires more preparation than your average date. When you find someone you’re

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Everyday Fetishes

We all have intense attractions to a particular object or body part – something that increases our arousal or is necessary for

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BDSM Vacation Ideas

I was invited to attend a local munch club recently. Everyone was talking about their summer vacations and I wondered if the

Foreplay to Get Laid

Ah . . . sweet sweet foreplay. So important, even in kinky relationships that may have a lot of other bells and

BDSM Relationship Negotiations

Relationship negotiations are key to successful BDSM partnerships. Good communication at the beginning will lay a foundation that won’t easily be shaken.

BDSM Pre-Meeting Questions

BDSM relationships begin in many ways. Finding your ideal partner doesn’t usually happen at the local bar or health club. Many people

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Dominant Traits

New to the BDSM community? Are you a dom in training, or want to be. Here are traits required to be a