Dos and Don’ts of Coming Out of the Kink Closet
How much should you tell? When is being honest about yourself too much information? Who needs to know? Whether you make a
Kinky New Year’s Resolutions
It’s a running joke because it’s true—everyone forget’s about their New Year’s resolutions by the end of January. Yet still we want
Stories of Kinky Adventures
When the days are shorter and the temperatures are below zero, banish the blues and cut the cold with hot memories about
Sexy Stocking Stuffers for Your Special Someone
Santa, Baby, hurry down the chimney—I swear, I’ve been a naughty girl all year! If you’ve been wondering what presents to get
Kinky Yoga and Tantric Sex
Put some more “down boy!” in your downward facing dog! Get your ass whipped while getting whipped into shape! If you found your
Go Back to School with Kinky Classes
Who says night school courses have to be a language, cooking, or brushing up on your algebra? All across North America, you
When Kink and Vanilla Lovers Collide
Dear Jamie. I’m a very creative person with a voracious sexual appetite. So, I’m kinky! I have zero interest in mechanical sex—everything has
3 Toxic Secrets Your Kinky Date Might be Hiding
Did you know that many psychologists agree that folks who participate in complex sexual experiences and relationships—like polyamory or fetishes—are better adjusted
Coulrophilia: The Clown Fetish is a Real Kink
I learned all about coulrophilia after my friend shared her kink for clowns. “The guy I’m dating is a clown,” a bestie
Kinky Monogamy in the BDSM Community
If you have kinks and fetishes, you know it’s hard to match those through online dating. Nothing is more difficult than finding
Leather Fetish Explained
Everything about leather is sexy. The warm, clean animal smell. The aesthetic and quality, from shoes to a handbag to tight leather
5 Bizarre Sex Toys You Didn’t Know Existed
How big is your sex toy collection? Even if you’re a purveyor of kinky accessories, it’s likely you haven’t heard of all