Kinky Confessions

Playing the Bad Guy in Role Plays

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I definitely consider myself kinky and fun when it comes to sex and adventure in the bedroom, but not a full-on BDSM babe. I dabble and will try many things, but I do have my hard limits.

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One of my favorite kinks is role playing, whether it be something planned in advance with sexy props, accessories, costumes, toys, and even a narrative, or a spontaneous role I come up with while fooling around.

A recent on-the-spot role occurred the other night. My lover was getting ready to drive home. He had packed up his belongings and put on his leather coat and new leather gloves. Seeing my guy all in leather turned me on. I think it was something about him being dressed in layers, while I was just wearing my flimsy nightgown. I felt so vulnerable.

I lifted my gown in the bedroom and did a short striptease, teasingly lifting it up and down while rotating my hips. He got turned on fast and pushed me back onto the bed. I imagined he was a stranger who had sneaked into my apartment, still in his coat and gloves.

Instead of being afraid, I turned the tables and opened my legs. I told him I was wet and that he should stick a gloved finger inside me. He obliged and pulled it out to smell. This made me wetter. Then he opened his belt and took hold of his hard cock, leaned over me, and thrust it in. I wrapped my legs around and pulled him closer.

We went through the motions, but neither of us came. He really had to go, and I let him. Later that night on the phone, he said he felt weird playing the “bad guy” which gave me pause. Like me, he doesn’t get into hard-core bdsm, and although we occasionally play dominant or submissive roles, we would never identify as such or be in a d/s relationship.

For me and my lover, it all boils down to fun. If we don’t feel comfortable or quite right, we talk about it during or after and modify future role plays. This type of sexual compatibility feels great, especially because I haven’t always had it with previous partners.

Have any thoughts on role playing dominant or submissive characters? How flexible are you?

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