It’s easy to get into a routine when it comes to sex positions. Maybe you’re always in missionary, or cowgirl, or doggie. And these are all good, but the feeling of giving and receiving oral at the same time is truly awesome. Here are some tips that will help you make the most of 69ing with your lover.
Shower First
Pre-sex bathing is usually a turn off for most, sometimes making you self-conscious of the way you smell. But this will make you feel more confident about receiving oral. You don’t have to make a big deal about it. If you like having a bath with your lover, take the opportunity of cleanliness by engaging in 69ing shortly after.
Get Comfortable
We all have our preferences, but the more comfortable you are, the longer it is likely to go on. Some men like the woman on top because the sight of a pussy right above their face is so hot. This is perfect for the man with a face-sitting fetish. Side-by-side is also good for extended double oral.
Use Your Hands
Of course your mouth and tongue are first and foremost but don’t forget to let your hands wander, caress, massage, squeeze, smack, and pinch. The more sensory stimulation you provide, the hotter your partner will get. And your mouth can move all around their genitals too.
Variety
Change up your technique as this will pleasantly surprise your partner who really can’t see what you’re doing. Try licking, sucking, nibbling, kissing, swirling, and lapping with your mouth and tongue. And anal play can be a great addition, using a finger, tongue or toy.
Be Verbal
Letting your partner know how much you’re enjoying yourself will only spur them on. This can include moaning, encouraging words, dirty talk, and even role playing. If you’re about to come and want to delay your orgasm, let them know. You may want to break with some kissing to taste yourself!
Keep Going
This can be challenging once you’re in full-tilt-boogie mode, when you’re so engaged in your physical feelings that you almost forget what you’re doing. But don’t! No matter how intense you’re feeling, keep up your end of what’s going on.
69ing is the ultimate position for those who get off as much from giving as receiving.
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