Summer is here and so is the heat. What better way to make the most of it than by trying out some sexy cold temperature play with your partner? Just the other day I was reaching into my freezer for a Popsicle when it occurred to me that Popsicles have the potential to be so much more than just a tasty treat. In fact, you might be surprised to discover that there are lots of frosty things around your house that can be called into sexy service. All it takes is a little taste for adventure and some creative thinking.
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Ways to Cool Things Down to Heat Things Up
Shower
On a hot day, a nice cool shower feels amazing. Why not boost your enjoyment by inviting your girlfriend to join you? Hand held shower heads are a well known staple for ladies who like to cum hard in the tub. Chances are she has her own technique, but don’t be afraid to experiment as a couple. Alternating the temperature between warm and cool as the water massages her clit is a great way to increase her pleasure, just be sure to test out the water first to see how comfortably far you can adjust it. If your shower is sensitive to having other faucets in the bathroom turned on, you might be able to have a little more fun by standing at the sink and surprising her with little hits of cold water by turning the tap on and off. Of course you want to make sure that doing so will create a COLD water effect. You definitely don’t want to risk scalding her, so do some test runs first.
Popsicles
As alluded to earlier, Popsicles can be used in various ways to enhance sexual pleasure. Try running one lightly over your girlfriend’s breasts and down to her belly button, then lick up the tasty melted trail you leave behind. Bite off a piece and cool your tongue with it before taking her nipple (or clit) into your mouth. Try placing the Popsicle directly on her nipples, if she’s open to it, then warming her back up in what ever way she likes. A word of warning though! Despite its shape, I would not recommend penetration. A) It’s WAY too cold and could damage her vagina and B) the sugary syrup of the Popsicle could actually give her an infection.
Metal Spoons
Place a few in the fridge and then use to give your partner a shiver-inducing massage. Run the spoons lightly over her skin, paying special attention to her nipples and clit. This is a subtler technique than the others I’ve mentioned so far. It works really well for easing into foreplay and preparing your lady for a long, luxurious fuck fest.
Strawberries
On their own, but especially when dipped in chocolate, strawberries are a proven aphrodisiac. They can also be used for some tasty temperature play, either frozen, or chilled in the fridge. Try slicing one up and placing the pieces on strategic areas of your lover’s body, then take your time eating them and using your tongue and mouth to drive her wild! Try any type of fruit you desire, and maybe add some whipped or ice cream to the mix if you’re feeling it.
There are so many options for sexy fun this summer if you and your partner are open to some exploration.
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