I used to be a bit of a prude. I was the kind of girl who only felt comfortable getting it on behind closed doors with the lights off and the curtains drawn. Then one day, as I was walking along a public trail with my boyfriend, he whispered in my ear, took me by the hand, led me into the bushes and fucked me hard, as groups of people passed only a few feet away from us.
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From that day on, I haven’t been able to resist the excitement of potentially getting caught in the act. I’ve even gone one step further and made a list of ways to make the experience even hotter. These might seem like simple things to try, but I can assure you that they really have the ability to amplify your dangerously close-to-being-exposed fun.
Tips to Maximize Your Thrill of Being Caught Having Sex
Challenge Each Other to Stay Quiet
This is especially effective when you and your partner have an expert handle on what it takes to make the other scream in ecstasy. Don’t hold back. Let yourselves get really passionate, in a hidden public place, but do it in total silence.
Up the stakes by using a ball gag and be sure to punish your partner if the silence is broken. (This can range from simply pausing what you’re doing to any consensual repercussion you desire). Remember that even while being punished, silence is a must. You don’t want to get caught, do you?
Do it with Time Restraints
Your roommate gets home from work each day at 5:15 and it’s currently 5:07. What better time than to go at it on the living room sofa? Don’t set an alarm, that’s too easy. Just make sure your partner cums before the door opens.
This technique is best practiced when the two of you are really horny. That way there’s a fair chance that you’ll succeed in your efforts. If you want to be really daring, try it when you’re not as desperate. There’s nothing like a challenge!
Delay your Gratification
So you’re in a thin-walled guest bedroom at your partner’s parents’ house. You both know it would be totally inappropriate to have sex, but you finally have some time together, away from the stresses of work and home and are so in need of a release. What are you going to do?
You know that if you give in to your desires, things could be a little awkward around the breakfast table tomorrow. And what if your mother-in-law comes into the room again, thinking that you need more towels? (Who knows? Maybe you will, if you catch my drift.)
Keep the tension high by teasing one another with partial advances. Incorporate the silence rule mentioned earlier and give in if you really must, but only after a torturous delay. The key is to try it on a few different occasions, under various taboo circumstances, sometimes giving in, sometimes not. It’s a technique known as Intermittent Reinforcement and it’s super hot.
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