There are a lot of people out there who think that sex with friends is a bad idea, but not everyone.
There are some of us kinky folk who actually swing the other way, seeing the benefits of having kinky sex with those we know.
4 Reasons to Engage in Kinky Sex with Friends
1. You Have a Shared History
Kinky sex with friends can work well because you have already spent so many hours on the telephone talking to each other about the kinky shit you like to do anyhow. It’s sort of a testing ground with each other for whether or not you two are compatible.
Got a lady friend who you often chat with about porn choices and so on? The more you chat about it, the more likely you are to start watching porn together. Way leads on to way, hands go down pants, things happen. Believe me, things happen.
2. There’s Less Judgement
Somebody who already knows you well is less likely to judge what a perv you are. They already know about your dirty mind, so the big reveals don’t seem nearly as big.
Got a piss fetish? She already knows, has been thinking about it, and might want to be urinated upon. She already knows you like dressing up as a wolf and howling. She’s ready to put on a deer costume and be pounced upon in the sylvan recesses of your bedroom.
3. You Share Sensibilities
If somebody is your friend, there is a strong possibility that they share certain sensibilities with you. This means that they may share sexual sensibilities with you, whether this has ever been discussed or not.
The friends we keep are often a mirror of the life to which we aspire. If you surround yourself with boring yuppies, you are probably a boring yuppie yourself. If you surround yourself with people who love black latex and studded clothing, chances are you like getting your ass whipped with a yard stick. Live your dream.
4. Friends Keep Secrets
If you already trust someone, you will know that they will keep your kinks secret from people who need not know that you love dressing in adult diapers, or doing it in phone booths, or dogging, or sucking dicks at glory holes. The gift of trust and shared complicity is a wonderful thing, and not to be underestimated.
Sometimes a kink is a very personal thing, and part of the fun is living a double life. If you’re exploring your kinks with strangers or people you just met, there’s always a chance that they will not protect your confidence. A friend, though, always will. That’s the reason they’re a friend.
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