Are you curious about anal play? Do you long to explore that avenue of sexual pleasure, but aren’t sure where to start? A lubed-up finger—be it yours or your partner’s—is probably the best jumping off point. Beyond that, there are plenty of toys that will take you to the next level.
If you really do the research, you will discover that there are a ton of ways to enjoy anal penetration, but for the sake of keeping things simple, I’m sticking to these four.
4 Pathways to Anal PleasureÂ
1. Anal Beads
Invest in a nice, sturdy set of silicone anal beads, lube them up, then lay back and enjoy as your partner inserts and pulls them out slowly, one link at a time. Some beads come in a string of graduated sizes, from small to large, so that you can stretch things out a bit and ease into the sensation.
Play with them on your own. Experiment with the speed and depth of insertion to discover what really does it for you. In terms of safety, be sure to check the beads before each use, and throw them out if there are signs of wear and tear.
2. Butt Plugs
A staple of many anal enthusiasts, butt plugs come in lots of shapes and sizes. Some are long and curved to really give you the prostate stimulation you crave, while others are short and wide, to enhance that stretching sensation that makes butt play so irresistible.
Choose a vibrating model to intensify your pleasure. Heat or cool a glass plug by immersing it in water to engage in a little temperature play. Once you know what you like, get daring. Wear your butt plug in a board meeting, or on the bus to Grandma’s house. Be brave in your kinky ass play adventures.
3. Strap-On Dildo
It’s impossible to address the many pathways to anal pleasure without mentioning dildos. For those of you who want the full-on pegging experience, dildos are a must.
Take your time choosing one that suits your needs. Start out small and work your way up to a larger size as your body allows. Be your partner’s bitch as they strap one on and nail you long and hard, or play solo using a dildo mount. Be generous with the lube and ease into things, especially at first. Slap a condom on your dildo to make for easier cleanup and safer sharing. Safety is of paramount importance when it comes to anal play.
4. More Dildos
Once you’ve mastered the art of pegging, kick things up a notch by adding a second dildo. Start by having your partner ease their finger in next to the first one, pushing in as they pull the toy out and vise-versa. Once you’re relaxed enough and begging for more, have them take out the original dildo and replace it with two smaller ones. Lube them both up really well, and enjoy the unmatched pleasure of a double dildo ass bang.Â
What toys do you favor for anal exploration? Dare to share in the comments!
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