5 Signs She Might Want to Peg You

At least once a week, I playfully threaten to stick a cucumber up my boyfriend’s butt. And then the conversation turns to pegging. He goes along with this back-and-forth banter, but I know damn well he’d never let me put something in there.

The thing is, I’m not sure I want to either. I have very little interest in playing the Domme in bed, preferring to be somewhat submissive. I like bondage, blindfolds and sensory games, as well as role playing and dress-up. But, that doesn’t mean it’s not fun to fantasize.

Many of us have fantasies about things we might never try… unless we find the right partner. Are you that special someone for your wife or gf?

Below are some obvious, and not-so-obvious signs that she might want to peg you!

Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife Wants to Peg You

1. She’s on a kinky dating site.
   If you’re into BDSM, you’re going to waste a lot of time looking for kinky play partners on mainstream hookup sites. Sure, women with kinks are on there, but they’re not going to talk about it in their profiles like they would on actual pegging dating sites.
2. She jokes about pegging.
   Like I said about myself, I love to tease my guy about sliding a strap-on in him. I don’t think I’ll ever do it, but a small part of me wonders if I really would enjoy it. You can always call her on it by gifting her a dildo and harness set-up.
3. She is dominant in bed.
   Maybe you’ve only hooked up a few times, but both times she’s engaged in some domme-like behavior. She’s pulled your hair, spanked you, or showed you her handcuffs. This type of play may only be the tip of the iceberg.
4. She loves dominatrix-themed porn.
   A lot of women aren’t going to admit to the type of porn that really turns them on, or even that they watch porn at all. But if she does invite you into her porn world, or asks you to watch porn together, she may be giving you a not-so-subtle hint about what she wants to try.
5. She pulls out the strap-on.
   Kaboom! A brave woman may just surprise you, and pull out her toys early on in a relationship if she doesn’t want to beat around the bush. You will either be thrilled or terrified, depending on your own fantasies. But don’t be shy—ask her what she wants to do before you run.

If you’re already sure that she’s eager to peg you for the first time, be sure to do a little research first: Strapon Sex Tips for Beginners.

And if you’re feeling unsure, here are some stories at Men’s Health from men who can’t get enough of being pegged!

Are you going to indulge her pegging kink? Let us know in the comments.